I really really have strong feelings for this guy i would appreciate it if you would answer my question?

Question

ok i have really strong feelings for this guy :) all the other guys i liked befor was because they were hot :) but this guy is nice,funny, great personality, and hes every thing im looking for in a guy :) yes he is handsome but thats not the reason i like him :) im in middle shool so things that are apprpiate for school please (for telling the guy i like him) :) he lives in a neihborhood across from mine and when i go to walk to school and hes ahead he always looks at me but i dont know if hes looking at me but nobodys behind me :) so is he looking at me? why? and my other questions are should i tell him i llike him? and what should i say if i tell him?

Answer 1

I've heard this before. You are probably confused on what to think. Does he like you?? Does he not like you?? You almost described my life in that question. You shouldn't consider telling him you like him at this point. Wait for a bit. It is hard. But be patient. Try and get his attention, without him thinking that you notice him. Make sure he catches you looking at him. not staring, looking. Then he might start thinking the same thing. Why is she staring at me? Is it becuase she likes me? Or is it in my head??? Should I keep an eye out for her? If it is something that should happen it should. Get close to him and make friends with him. SHow him that you guys are good together, without saying it outloud. When you are 95% sure he likes you tell him, if he hasn't asked you out already. Or a better option is ask him if he wants to hang out at the mall sometime. Or if you share a class like English or history or something, ask if you two can study together. It's risky, so be cautious and careful. If you are serious about this guy, then don't come right out and say it. It my embaress him, then it will be hard to even be friends. Play the cards right, and it's worth it in the end! Good luck!

Answer 2

You guys are still really young, and you might not know him that well. I'm sure he's a great guy, but he's just human, after all, and a boy hitting puberty at that (they can be a little -- tricky -- some times)
If you are really interested in getting to know him a little better, start by smiling and saying hi when you see him. If/when he does the same, after a little while, you could throw out a "Hi, how are you?" or, if all goes well, he might start talking to you.
I think it might be good for you to get to know him a little better before you tell him that you like him, though -- there seems to be less risk of getting hurt that way, you know?
Good luck, stay safe, and remember that you are very young, too young to really get serious with anyone, even though your heart might be bouncing all over the place every time you see him :)

Answer 3

Good thing that you're noticing some aspects of his personality instead of just "he's hot." Almost everyone thinks they are shy...but why not give him a chat? Just walk up to him and say something like, how are your classes going? Or, can you believe how hot/cold/humid this stupid weather is? Or, do you think we can reinstate recess if we elect the right student council president? If you resort to a note, send him one to meet you for a coffee somewhere. As an aside, you don't have to have a boyfriend. If you aren't comfortable approaching this guy, wait for the next. Good luck, sweetie!

Answer 4

middle school huh? is a rough time for girls and boys both. What you need to remember is that you are still in the process of growing and maturing, so don't be in a rush just let things happen and go with the flow. You have a whole lifetime ahead of you and there are a great many guys out there.

Answer 5

Why not start off as friends and get to know him better.

The next time you catch him watching him, smile and say "hi" or wave at him.

Since you're only in middle school, friendship is the best way to go right now.

Any thing beyond that could become complicated. Just concentrate on being really good friends for right now and see what happens.

Answer 6

Take a risk, do not rush yourself, simply find an icebreaker or just go up to him and talk to him, you know how to talk to people right? this way you will hold a small conversation with him, to get another opinion and view of him. Do not use the silent treatment, he will never get you then. Talk to him, then talk to him again, then one of you has to make the move sooner or later. if he doesn't don't be afraid to ask for a little alone time with him, to hang out with him, to see what he is like. IT makes him comfortable and it should make you more confidant.

Answer 7

being middle school age sucks. ha I wouldnt go back if someone gave me a million dollars. If you leave for school at the same time everyday, he might know that so he might look back to make sure you're there. Next time he looks back, just smile at him. I wouldnt rush into anything... especially since you're only in middle school. He doesnt really need to know you like him either. I'd just give it time. You also dont want to push anything on him, so just take it one step at a time. :)

Answer 8

hi dear u r so first u r cute,& clever for saying these words.
dear if u want 2 know if he is looking at you when you cross the street 2 the scholl try 2 say "good morning" and smile with your pretty face & u ll see that he 'll get curious 2 know ur name & everthing about you without doing anything 4m ur side.
but dear take care of ur self coa u still 2 young u understad what i mean i guess.

Answer 9

Next time he looks back at you, make eye contact and smile at him. Guys like knowing you're interested, just as much as us girls like knowing. Keep doing it and I'm sure he'll smile back. He may even slow his pace and wait for you to catch up. You can even try leaving your house a little earlier so that you'll be walking at an even closer distance.

Answer 10

ok if a guy looks back at u he likes u. and if u talk to him just ask if he wants to hang out some time get to no him. and then out of the blue sometime just say i like u.