It seems the best looking girls only go for guys that treat them like trash, why is that?
2007-11-10 16:04:01 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dave. when you find out let me know . ?
2007-11-10 16:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Ususally those are females that have serious issues with low self-esteem and sometimes there are no father figures in the house, so they look for love in all the wrong places. Or sometimes, the father or "father figure" that is constant in her life, is not a good example of what a father should be but that is what the girl only knows and is used to, so that is what see seeks in a male.
2007-11-10 16:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They don't. They let themselves become manipulated by some ididot that tells them that they are not good enough, pretty enough etc. He also tells them that they can never find someone better, and girls let themselves be manipulated, and feel that they don't deserve better. I've been through it. At first I wanted to leave, but every time I did that, he would start crying and apologizing saying that he won't do it again. Slowly he got control. And believe me it's hard to get out of a relationship like that.
2007-11-10 16:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh...they don't. The females you are talking about are the insecure depressed morons that make the rest of us look bad. I'd rather have a nice guy over an asshole any day. Sounds to me like you've got some woman-hating issues.
2007-11-10 16:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by xXEdgeXx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that that like to be abused or mis-treated, but prefer a man who is more agressive and thats the kind of guys who usually end up treating women like crap. Nice guys finish last.
2007-11-10 16:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one enjoys being treated that way.
However, for people who grew up with abuse, it does feel "comfortable" because it's familiar, and because that familiarity was formed at a young and impressionable age.
That's why sometimes, if women like this don't get help, when they do meet a good guy, and things are going well, they often sabotage the relationship so it will sink into that familiar drama and chaos. Likewise, they are often attracted to abusive men, because they remind them of their father (or their abuser if that was not the father).
Being aware of the pattern and reasons is the first step to getting help. The 2nd step is to work with a psychotherapist to get through the issues and start rebuilding.
The good news is anyone can work through it if they chose to.
2007-11-10 16:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
women (or anyone, for that matter) don't ENJOY being abused or treated badly! Men can't understand because they've very seldom been victims of sexual abuse, rape, and/or domestic abuse. Women endure alot of things in their life and some become convinced they don't deserve anything more. They're brainwashed into believing that nobody will ever love them like their abuser. They feel trapped because they've been threatened or their abuser is holding them hostage financially. There are alot of reasons, but I can assure you it's not because their dumb, or sluts (like the idiot above states) or because they ENJOY it!!!!! Please don't assume people's circumstances before you know them personally.
2007-11-10 16:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by mommyrayne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say the enjoy it. Most the time it's because @ first they "love" the guy~ then he starts breakin down their self confidance, making them think nobody else will want them, then they are afraid to leave after being threatened. The biggest reason~ the have a low self esteem!
2007-11-10 16:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Marine Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok coming from a female... i don't that weird usually that happens only for the guy not the relationship meaning what other people will think of them if they like/go out with that guy..
so if that happens to you they don't like you either they want the rep. or they need someone so they choose anyone..
not saying thats you but maybe..
thats what i have seen..
does that answer that question...
...no one likes to be treated like that..
2007-11-10 16:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by stevie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They like that bad boy image. they just may be lonely and dont know they can do better so they rather be with someone than be alone. Ad it usaully easier to get a date from them first so they keep going to the same pool
2007-11-10 16:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by lilbit1416 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the guys that treat them like trash..r usally as good lookin as the girls.ex:popular goes with popular.just as the nicest person mabey the nerdiest person and the ugliest.m treated my first girlfriend bad and i got sued for it...~not a good idea to do it~
2007-11-10 16:09:14 · answer #11 · answered by ~shet head~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋