2007-11-10 15:20:54 · 38 answers · asked by auchick1127 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't. If you want to go out with him, then it's up to you to ask him out. This is the era of equality, you know. You may be worried anout embarrassment, but so's he - and he's probably feeling the pressure of being expected to ask, thereby risking rejection.
Good luck!
2007-11-10 15:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really like him, show interest in him by talking about more personal details, trying to get to know him better and compliments; compliments will earn a lot of respect and build a guy's confidence to ask you out. Just make sure you don't spill the beans about your grandmothers sweater collection that you keep in your closet. What i mean is wait until a couple of dates have passed before you completely let out something like that. Guys do like stories like that though, just lay low on the personal narrative of embarrassing moments the first date
2007-11-10 15:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and be like "So, you like music. Do you like _______ (insert band name)?" Check out some of the local shows going on. Look for a band that's playing that you like and you're pretty sure he likes. Then you ask him "Do you want to go see ______ which my on mm/dd?" If he says no then he's not fun. Anyone who doesn't like live music is either old or boring. I think it'll work though. If no bands are playing then replace "music" and "_____" with movies. You have nothing to lose. Rejection sucks but how are you going to know if he is going to reject you, if you don't give talking to him a try?
2016-05-29 03:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by delores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be embarrassed if the one you ask is the one you really like. Equal opportunity for both sexes is not only for jobs. Women can court too. Even if he says "NO", I see no embarrassment there. It's better you act than to pretend. Who knows, maybe is just to dying for you and afraid to be turned down. Try it Girl...That's my Girl.
2007-11-10 15:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask him out. If your embarrassed (even though there would be no reason to be) try telling other people you both know how you feel and someone will tell him what you said.
2007-11-10 15:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Casey Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, call him and ask him. I did that before and he actually wanted to go but he couldn't because he had a football game. But before you do it, say it in front of the mirror. It actually works. If you can't do that, texting is always a good idea. If you can't do that get an ambassador. An ambassador is someone you get to ask him for you.
2007-11-10 15:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that he likes you, just ask him your self and don't be emmbarrassed. I told my husband that if he didn't ask me out that he was going to lose his chance ( I had asked him to a couple of group things previously) and he jumped at. We've been married for four years and have the two of the cutest kids on this earth....
2007-11-10 15:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by mamma_reggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out who says we women have to stand on thesidr lines and wait for the guy to ask us the worst he can say is no and maybe laugh than all you do is move on to the next person. The best that can happen is he will say yes.
2007-11-10 15:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the 1960's anymore. It's perfectly legit to ask the guy out now.
Ask if he wants to go to a coffee shop and talk. Or a movie, or an event. Nothing embarrassing about that. If he's interested he'll say yes or arrange another time to go with you if your date/time isn't convenient for some reason.
2007-11-10 15:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by hudsongray 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honestly...I think if you feel embarrassed in the first place perhaps the guy isn't right for you.
If it's right...it should be easy to do.
2007-11-10 15:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by mishmallow8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋