has anyone in R&S been hit on by another R&S participant? it's actually happened to me...just once...the weird thing is, it was by someone who vehemently disagreed with me about just about everything! i've been married 17 years and it's the first time THAT's ever happened...made me feel a little creepy, actually! has this happened to others? how did you handle it?
2007-11-10 13:36:26 · 20 answers · asked by spike missing debra m 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yeh, a few times, mostly by email. A few of my pals do it jokingly and I know its a joke so it doesn't bother me. On the few occasions it's happened and it's been for real, I've given them the cold shoulder. I find if you don't respond, they get the hint pretty quick. I also once posted a question similar to yours after receiving a flirty email and it got the point across super fast :)
The most irritating thing, is that the majority of times it happened, was when guys had read the profile info I use to have on my Y!A profile. I clearly stated on my profile that I was engaged and they still hit on me, which made me cranky. Few people have any respect for relationships anymore >:(
So either politely say "Thanks but no thanks", or ignore them. If it persists, block em.
((((((((Spike))))))))
2007-11-10 16:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No, and I hope that never happens. I'll bet that is a creepy feeling. I've been married 24 years, and I would never even think of disrespecting God or my husband in any kind of way.
God Bless You, Spike.
2007-11-10 21:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Brilliant 1forHIM 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Does this include the one who was condemning me to hell in the same breath?? I have gotten it alot. I just ignore it unless It is one of my contacts and I know they are just kidding around. They eventually get the message if you just be polite but dont respond to the overtures. With the exceptions of the *real* nutcases
Oh and I am kinda gullible so if they are being "slick" it takes me a bit to grasp what is really happening...
2007-11-10 21:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
LOL...no.... either I intimidate people with my strong beliefs, or, they look at my testimonials and probably think "that poor woman....let's humor her, but, don't get too close!" :)
LOL if not that, it's simply that a 52 year old mom of 4 and grandmother of 11 is just not their cup of tea! :)
In your case...well, you do realize that from the sandbox on, it's the girl or boy constantly sniping at or hitting the other that is in "love" with the other...LOL I guess your admirer thinks you get cuter when you argue! :)
Good luck with that!
2007-11-10 21:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by ForeverSet 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I's bin hittin' on that thar bonsai bobby fer ever so long, but he ain't got eyes fer no one but that beano!! They's a gittin married in 40 years ya know. ;)
An' Hannah, keep yer paws off Darthy....I done got my sights set on 'im............baked 'im a huckleberry cobbler jest a little bit ago! Ain't he somthin'?
2007-11-10 22:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by I Love Lucy 3 · 11⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't make you feel creepy..just flattered. BUT they shouldn't if they know you're married. Alas, no, never happened to me, but am glad...(married 20 yrs.).
2007-11-10 21:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
At the strangest times and by people I would never have expected. Tis the internet, after all.
2007-11-10 21:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
Hannah!!!!! I thunk yew was the gal fer mah ownsef but I caint take all dis year runnin roun n tawlkin ta all them thar fellers specially thet thar Darth..doan yew ken he be one o them thar Yankee boys?
2007-11-10 22:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
pshhh darth is like soooo wrong!! seeing how i'm his ex wife and all, i should know. he don't beat them off with a stick, more like a light saber, a nice long golden rod of a saber. grooowl is his roar! hear him now, protect your women, keep your daughters locked up, and ah..i'm now single here in r&s. my wife left me, actually, she keeps getting suspended, and i cant' keep up with her!! now i know how darthy warthy feels. and im' effin happy because of jose cuervo.. ahhh nothing like a nice oh..geeze i'm babbling, good grief!! i'm a terrbile happy drunk. yikes! oh yeah, and to answer you... no one, for some odd reason, like an old prude of a nun... yep, can we say cobwebs with a straight face?
i don't know how id' handle it. if i had me a stalking deprived one come after me, i might run them off because of the fact that ive been deprived, they'd be like...oh boy, that one is a real dooooozie! dooooozie i tell ya!
2007-11-10 21:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well, I didn't want to say anything.......but in 40 years I have a wedding date with someone on here. We're trying to keep it quiet though. ;)
EDIT: I suppose I could give you just a *tiny* hint though. His initials on here are BB. And he likes trees........little tiny ones.........like bonsai's. LOL
(((((BB)))))
2007-11-10 22:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by beano™ 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋