what were some things that happened before your bf dumped you?
(signs he was going to dump you)
2007-11-10 12:54:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think typically boys will show a lack of interest in you. and not much excitement when you call or when the two of you hang out. he may also not answer your calls, or texts. I hope you don't think your boyfriend is going to dump you, but if you do, you should talk to him about it. and just be honest. also remember that there are a million boys and if he dumps you, then he is stupid.
2007-11-10 12:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seeing each other has become less frequent.
Calling his number and takes at least an hour to call you back.
You two suppose to go out and you wait and wait and his dumba** never shows up.
You say lets go out to such and such place and he immediately says no.
Indirectly letting you know he wants to bang other chicks by talking about his friend being such a ladies man and how he never got all the girls like his friend does.
He doesn't want to get it intimate or show affections towards you.
Other than the above mentioned, if there any other signs that he is being weird and not acting like his normal self, call him out on it. Remember, women has that intuition about things so always listen to it. I wish I listened to mines.
If he leaves silly hints behind to let you know he isn't interested, he is immature. Any mature person (man or woman) will sit you down and tell you face to face it's over instead of dragging out the failing relationship. Maybe you should surprise him by dumping him instead.
2007-11-14 15:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime he acts preoccupied or not particularly interested in you, or forgets to call, that is the time to distance yourself from him. Don't let him dump you, you dump him. If it is going to happen anyway, it is easier on your self esteem if you do the dumping.
Don't always be there at his beck-and-call. Turn off your cell. Have your mom tell him you aren't home. Let him wonder. Get interested in doing things with a group. There are a lot of guys out there. Just do your thing and enjoy yourself. You do not need to have a bf in order to have fun.
2007-11-10 21:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Cat Lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not calling as much. Not answering relationship questions (like, "Do you think this is going anywhere? Do you still want to be monogamous? etc"). Saying he was going out with a friend all the time when previously he had said he couldn't stand that friend. Not wanting to kiss anymore. (and not that much into sex) Plus, it's just a feeling you get. You just know something is up. And, when you get that feeling, you almost dread asking if something is wrong, but you know it's probably for the best to just get it over with. Rip off the band-aid fast, as quickly as possible so the pain won't linger.
2007-11-10 20:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Schmitty V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New GF answers the phone. He has to finish sex before he talks to you. He intriduces several good looking cousins to you. If you are asking this question he has already dumped you.pp
2007-11-10 20:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the sings might be:
Not so attracted 2 u.
Doesn't call as much.
Is more busy.
Didn't go out on a date a much as usual.
2007-11-10 20:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by a123cheer4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do if i were going to dump my gf would be to avoid her by not texting, not calling, not answering the phone, and especially not calling back. if i would happen to run into her or something i would talk about my other female friends and not really be interested in what she had to say. don't get me wrong, don't be rude or anything, but just kinda make it obvious that, hey, im not really interested in you anymore. that's what i'd do.
2007-11-10 21:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Willie D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 never called.. when he use to call often
2 picked lots of fights for no reason
3 had his picture on a dating web site
4 lying about where he has been
5 was seen with different woman
6 don't want to sleep with you as much
2007-11-10 20:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol
good question
i was the bf dumping the broad
she was useless
2007-11-10 20:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. he doesn't call as often. (putting some distance b/w u)
2. he doesn't get as physical (putting greater distance)
3. he doesn't return your calls (he's "very busy")
---basically these are guy codes that means "I'm over you and this relationship and i'm too much of an a**hole/big baby to tell you to your face."
2007-11-10 21:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by MarieChaton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋