I used to smoke, but I quit. I know a lot of guys who think smoking is a huge turn off, including one that I'm sort of seeing. He brought that point up the other day. Should I tell him that I used to? Is that something he needs or would want to know? I feel like if I mention it, it's like lying almost.
2007-11-10 11:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't do it anymore, then what's the big deal. If anything, you can point to the fact that you had the willpower to break the habit.
2007-11-10 11:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by bambam919201 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he brings it up again, just be like 'ugh, I know. I used to smoke, but then I quit because ____" and then drop it.
And I don't know about it being a turn off. I kind of think it's hot if a guy is like holding a cigarette, or is smoking one. But those are the boys who are like bad boys, who I check out but could never date. Maybe. I'll have a fling with a bad boy one day, lol. I just have the curse of always falling for the nice guys.
Answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgY5aOFu9x2_5v7m95ksLFjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071109203453AAwFaNC
2007-11-10 11:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're making a big deal out of a small thing. Alot of people used to smoke and don't. If you wanna tell him or not, just don't make a big deal about it when you'll bring it up, or it'll make the response worse.
2007-11-10 11:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by LendMeYourMouth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well smoking is a turn off for me. Since you quit it should be fine with him, but don't hide it from him. Wouldn't it be sad if your relationship ended because of such a trivial thing???
2007-11-10 11:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, ew.
the only ppl who dont think smoking is a turn off are smokers.
Its ok if you used to you can tell him that you used to, he wont mind as long as you dont start again
2007-11-10 11:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Star L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks tell him the truth, but really, he'd probably like the fact that you were smart enough to quit.
2007-11-10 11:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't smoke anymore. smoking is discusting. it is a huge turn off. ew, i would never kiss a guy that smokes.
2007-11-10 11:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by duhibowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its no big deal just mention it casually. like would you date me if i still smoked
2007-11-10 11:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your true thoughts on the subject.You might inspire him to stop too.
2007-11-10 11:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important part is that you're not now. I really don't think it would matter to him that you used to.
2007-11-10 11:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋