Thinking about death...?

Question

can somebody help me shake off this stupid habit of thinking what will happen if i die? its like... because my grandpa died.. i kept thinking.. is there heaven? is there really god? what if i die? all these questions.. it makes me really very uncomfortable... somebody help me try to shake this habit off... i havent been sleeping well cause of it

Answer 1

yes there is a heaven and a god,
theres also jesus
but see dead people
dont go to heaven
they stay here in earth,
with there bodies,
and such
its like there in a deep sleep.
God[or as i refer to Jehova]
is soon gonna make evry bad thing here
disappear, and the poeple too.
I read the bible, and i believe everything in it.

Just think positive,
and i know it sounds harsh,
and try to forget about ur grandpa and go
on with lifes,
theres alot waiting for you out there.

Answer 2

I think most people (at some point in their lives) think of their destiny and about death. It is particularly difficult when someone close to you has died.

Try keeping a journal and writing down what you are thinking. Watch cheerful or funny movies. Talk to your friends and see if they have similiar thoughts. Before you go to bed, read a book.

There is nothing abnormal with what you are going through. However, if you can't shake this after a few months and it starts to effect your daily life---then it is time to elicit the help of a therapist.

Answer 3

You seem rather depressed, and perhaps that's why your mind keeps dwelling on death. Find a mental health inventory on the web, fill it out and let it tell you whether you need a dr. or not. www.nami.org is a great resource.

You need to believe for yourself, as I did for myself, as to the existence of God. Until you do, your thoughts will all be in a tangle.

In my opinion, as stated in the Bible, there is only one thing that determines which side of Hades we land in, and it is whether you believe that Jesus Christ is the son of God. If you believe, you will not experience the hot part of Hades. Period. Pray. Ask God to show Himself to you, to lead you where you should go so that you might be sure of your eternal destiny.

Salvation is just that--eternal salvation. Take it or leave it, believe it or not, it's your choice.

You probably don't even have a Bible, right? I know of a wonderful organization that gives out New Testaments free of charge or obligation. They will never ask you for money. They will ask if you want more books--for free, of course. www.biblesforamerica.org.

I'm here if you need me.

Debbie

Answer 4

whenever we experience the death of someone close to us, we tend to think about the mystery of death and the afterlife.it can be very hard to get through. you have to just make up your mind to accept the fact that we ALL are going to die one day, and instead of fretting about it, enjoy this life while we are able and healthy.
i beleive that we all return to our maker. so...no worries ok?your grandpa is back "home".and you will be there too one day :) in the meantime, enjoy your time on earth :)

Answer 5

what ur going through is normal, i went through it and i realized the only reason why i was afraid of death is because my life is empty and full of regrets , i changed my life and filled it with rewarding things,i dont mean by that that ur life is like mine, none the less treat Ur self right treat ppl right do something to help others ,explore, educate ur self , read , live a rewarding life be a good person. read religious books, the biggest 3 religion's Judaism, Christianity and Islam talk about life here after ,who created this magnificent universe is surly not powerless to create a life after this one, what makes life so precious is death so dont wast ur life thinking about it, its going to happen to u to me ,it happend to 100000000000000 ppl b4 u and it will happen to 1000000000000 after u, ur not the only one who is gona go through it. what u need to think about is this ,if there is no life after this one ,the hell with it ur alive now and u better make the best out of it, and if there is one which i believe in that, do ur best to do whats right in this life that will insure ur happy ending in heaven dont be afraid of death its only natural and imminent ur not alone.and without death there wont be meaning to this life. and this life is only a test to prove to god are worthiness of heaven or if ur really bad hell ;).im sorry about ur grandfather but if he lived a good life and died knowing he left behind a good strong family u have nothing to worry about . let him go one day afte 100 year of a happy life and lots of kids and grandkids u will be reunited withh ppl u loved in heaven.

Answer 6

You will die like everyone else. Hopefully, it will be peaceful. I believe in God and heaven. Live your life.

Answer 7

I think about death to alot ... I understand what you are saying.. I used to be so scared also so I couldnt sleep .. I tought - maybe I die tomorrow ... Just think happy thougst dont think about death cause its just terrifying...

Answer 8

When you die you will know all that. While you're still alive, why why think about the questions of the living world?

Answer 9

i also think about death
but if ur a good person
u sont have to worry
god will take u some where good