doesn't mean that you don't really loved him never. How can love change into hate?
2007-11-10 11:00:16 · 19 answers · asked by Claudia A 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
..but no! If your so called love changed into hate I still think you only believed before that you really love that person, but you didn't.
I loved, he hurted me so much, I passed through all atachements for him,..and finally now I can say I love him with a purified, unconditined love.....because I realized that when you really love a people you love him forever.
2007-11-10 11:18:52 · update #1
Love is love, never hate. Love forgives, but doesn't know hate.
2007-11-10 11:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People change and you do not love who they've become.
It CAN change to hate.
Want an example? My exhusband... oh I loved him. I well and truly did. I even cut off contact with my family for over a year to be with him because they didn't like him.
But, after we got married, things changed. He cheated on me, and started doing things like punching holes in the walls. He once told my stepdad that "its better to punch a hole in the wall than it is to punch her in face, isn't it?". When I found out he cheated on me the first time, I decided I'd try to forgive him. But then the control started. He didn't want me to talk to my family because "they're a bad influence on you". He wanted to approve of all my friends before I could have anything to do with them.
He changed. And I grew to hate him more than I've ever hated anyone in my life.
THAT is how it changes honey. Thats how you grow to hate someone you once loved. Because they've become a person you can't stand any more.
2007-11-10 11:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The greatest love can turn into the greatest hate when that love is betrayed.
You might have loved a guy with all your heart, thinking that he was true to you, then you find out that he was banging your best friend and all that love turns to hate. Doesn't mean that you never really loved him in the first place - you loved him heaps, and then he betrayed you.
2007-11-10 11:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the story of Jason and the Argonauts? To sum it up, Medea fell in love with him, and he used her, to not only get the golden fleece, but to get rid of his enemies. And after she'd bore him two children, he got sick of her and cast her away to marry some girl. She hated him so much that she killed his fiance, ruined him, and then killed their two children, so that he could not be happy.
She really did love him, at least in the beginning, so much that she even killed her brother for him, but he betrayed her and took advantage of her so that she hated him more than she loved her own children.
That is how love can turn to hate.
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2007-11-10 11:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by runner08 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree
love cannot change to hate, unless one or the other is based on a false concept of who the person is
...unless one of the two people changes, then i guess it can happen, but thats rare. Usually you just get to know them better
2007-11-10 17:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by It's a lamp! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things change. They just do.
You can love someone and then just stop. It's possible. My wife did it, and if she didn't mean it then she sure as hell had me fooled, what with all the divorce papers and what not.
In reality, both love and hate are finite.
2007-11-10 11:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kemp the Mad African 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a hair's breadth from hate; they're both powerful emotions, and the balance is easily tipped under the right circumstances.
2007-11-10 11:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Before you knew the individual, you did not love him/her.
You came to love them.
Then, due to whatever, you came to not love them.
I won't say 'hate'.
How about: you moved on to indifference.
Love cools.
2007-11-10 11:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate is the opposite of love. You still love the person, it is the behavior you hate. Keep them separate.
2007-11-10 11:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by The Rabbi 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You love someone, then they stop being kind and charming... it was just a front.. did you love the person for real? or was it the charming fraud you loved?
2007-11-10 11:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋