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Its my volleyball banquet. I really like him alot he a great guy, but alot of girls step all over him and i wont be like that. So at banquet how do i keep his attention on me and get him to like me?

2007-11-10 10:44:42 · 20 answers · asked by Hayley 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

20 answers

When you accept your award - dedicate all your hard work and the win to him!

Then when you talk after dinner tell him that as much as the award means to you that HE means even more and that you know he has been hurt in the past - and you never want to hurt him like that! If he would be willing to give you a chance you will make sure he never regrets it!

PAUSE (then say)

So will you be my Boyfriend and give me a Chance...

If his answer is " YES " (immediately) Give him a tight hug followed with a soft quick kiss on his lips.

If his answer is " NO " tell him you understand that he is a little worried about the relationship and (immediately) say - I will wait until you are ready!

GOOD LUCK

2007-11-10 10:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by INTIMIDATOR 3 · 0 0

do the one thing that he is not getting from "the other girls". try a little kindness, let him do the talking at first. listen, a little, and see if you have some of the same interests, ie. music, movies, walks. you get the idea. ask him to go running with you, that would be a great way to be alone and talk and learn more about him, and he could learn about you at the same time

lol

2007-11-10 18:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by James S 1 · 0 0

You have to introduce him to anyone around you he doesn't know then you ask him a question about him, and listen intently. Think of something funny that happened to you and get him smiling. that is a big step in getting his guard down. The more he is involved with you mentally the easier it is to keep his attention on you, Be light and friendly and you should keep him connected to you.

2007-11-10 18:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0 0

Look into his eyes, laugh at his jokes, hold him close when you are slow dancing on the dancefloor. Don't look around at every guy you see. When you are sitting at the table with him, touch his hand for a second when you are talking to him.

Guys want to think that there is a special connection. You can create that by giving him your time and attention.

Ask him questions about himself. Show him you are interested in HIM. Listen to the answers he gives you. Don't interrupt with your own ideas or opinion.

Don't argue or fight with him. Guys don't want to be with someone who is argumentative. They want to be with someone who they can relax with. Someone who pays attention to them.

2007-11-10 18:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by roatanbruce 2 · 0 0

Wear something attractive, smile and talk to him about him and what he likes to do. Invite him to go somewhere like to a movie, bowling, go have pizza sometime, listening to CD's, helping each other out with homework, etc. It would be an invite to continue on seeing each other.

2007-11-10 19:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be yourself. I know it sounds really cliche but it's true. Don't be too clingy though, people get really really annoyed by that. Show him that you like him with little things (i.e. dressing up). But no matter what happens, always be a good friend through good times and bad.

2007-11-10 18:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Aleeeeesha 1 · 0 0

If your the dressy type try to dress in a nice outfit that he would like and try some nice makeup. Well good luck on your man.

:D

2007-11-10 18:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Smile when you talk to him and touch him every once in a while while talking. Guys notice that. He'll know you are interested.

2007-11-10 18:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by bryan 3 · 0 0

well try to be yourself and don´t try to be over him so much, just act natural and be aware of all the things that matter for him.
Listen him, make it feel comfortable.

2007-11-10 18:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Luis Gerardo N 3 · 0 0

dress slutty!!!
just kidding but it might work id say just be your self just look in to his eyes make him know you want to be with him but i would say wear something you look good in and just go get him let him know how you fell

2007-11-10 18:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by gesswhos 1 · 0 0

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