does he want me just for sex??we talk about it alot but he also tells me dat im not ugly,pretty,cute,im beautiful he says a lot of sweet things,but is it all game??or is he for real??
2007-11-10 10:43:16 · 34 answers · asked by Bianca M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you for sex. Don't give in to him.
2007-11-10 10:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If you guys are young, say 13-15 or 16, the guy usually wants to go out, but then immediatly get to the sex. I am almost sure that once a guy is now 16 and up, he is a little more mature and will want to go out and stuff, but trust me, guys act as if they're a lot cooler without their viginity.
2007-11-10 10:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there more to the relationship than sex? Does he show you in other ways that he likes you and respects you, or is it "Wham Bam, thank you mam" when he is around you? Men don't always compliment women; depends on what they saw other males in their life doing to their female partners. But he should be showing an interest in you other than just the bedroom. You will know because women are good at knowing intuitively what is happening, we just don't want to admit it or see it. We would rather take on a man as a project and make him what we need, rather than moving on to that wonderful man waiting for you to be single again. Good luck. Use your head, not his.
2007-11-10 10:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really expect an intelligent answer based on the information given? Just in case, the answer is yes. That's all guys want is sex. Or possibly no, he's really into you and you're being too defensive.
2007-11-10 10:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by slice_n_hook@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he take you out?Does he call to say he misses you?Does he talk about anything else?If its sex all the time EVERYDAY then yes,most likely he is using you.Guys will tell you your beautiful and all other sweet things to get in your pants.Go with your gut instinct.
2007-11-10 10:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by rawr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him.
It might be awkward - but that's the only way to know for sure...and even then, maybe you won't know for sure.
Dating and sex make things awkward - so if you really want to do it with him, make sure things are cool with the two of you before and after.
2007-11-10 10:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by thenightlynews 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes hanging out with you even when you're not having sex, and he doesn't pressure you for sex, and you have other things in common besides sex and other things you like to do together, than he probably likes you for more than just sex.
2007-11-10 10:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well step it up a notch. Let him feel like he has competition. If he slacks then he was just their for the booty. However if he opens his heart up for you and you feel (emotionally) that he is honest, then this guy wants you for you. Remember that sex is complementary to a relationship, but if you let him know also that it's not a priority and you see him change, that alsio indicates that he just wants to "tap" it. You got to make him work for it! It shouldn't be given for free!
2007-11-10 10:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by natibiris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends tell him you do not want sex then see what he says if he says whatever and never talks to you again you made a good choice lol
2007-11-10 10:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks about "it" eery 7 seconds that he's awake.
What do you think?
Wait for marriage. You get get it back once you have lost it.
Guys want to marry virgins, although they work hard to make sure there are none.
I was a virgin until my wife, and my son waited for marriage, and we both have fabulous happy marriages!
2007-11-10 10:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he does love you alot, but most guys do want to go way farther. i guess sometimes guys want to have sex with people they love to show them that they will be good lovers or something like that, or maybe they just need more love... idk very much about guys thinkings, but just be careful. if you don't want sex tell him no. if he keeps telling you he wants it, then he is going against your wishes and he probably doesn't really want to make it a forever relationship.
2007-11-10 10:50:12 · answer #11 · answered by Loves Cure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋