my mother and i live together and i am a 13 year old boy. My father had passed away 3 years ago and i really hate this guy who keeps checking out my mom and i really hate it!! what should i do!! PLEASE HELP!!
2007-11-10 06:47:02 · 7 answers · asked by Rajesh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your mom how you feel about it, but you need to understand she wants to be happy and needs to move on and find someone. Just because she starts dating another guy, doesnt mean she will forget about your father or stop loving him.
2007-11-10 06:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kandiii♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is to tell your mom, or else things could possibly worsten.You cannot make the guy go away, i've tried my with my moms ex husband.Ive been in this sort of situation before, & came out of if almsot 3 years ago with a horrible memory.I was 11 though when it happened.No one should ever be in that type of situation i know how you feel, but you just have to tell your mom about this because you can be tremendously affected.And im sorry about the loss of your father, goodluck though with your situation
2007-11-10 07:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by ☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not a lot that you can do because she has to decide to move on with her life but let her know how you feel and perhaps that may have a lot to do with how the relationship goes. if the guy checks other girls out as well, then you have to make sure that she knows that and the only thing you can really say perhaps is that she can do better than that. I suspect that she is lonely and needs someone in her life but it should be someone you get along with as well as her. You might even try to get this guy to do things with you and if he doesn't want to that will be a sign to her as well, or you may get to like the guy perhaps. Good Luck to you and hope it all works out in the end.
2007-11-10 06:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that what you are afraid of is that he might try to replace your father, which isn't possible. Don't worry about that, he won't try to replace your dad, because he can't, he isn't your dad. and your mother will always love your dad, but, she deserves to be happy, and she can love someone else too. I know change is scary, especially a change like this, but, your mom has the right to be happy, and to date, and you should let her. She won't let him try to replace your dad in any way, just because she dates him doesn't mean he replaces your dad for her, he isn't your dad, and the part of her that loves your dad will always miss him, what it means if she dates him is that he makes her happy, in a new, different way, and she likes that. Don't try to interfere with her dating, all that will do is divide you and your mom. Just be there for your mom, and encourage her, and tell her you want her to be happy.
2007-11-10 06:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play pranks on him. make that guy hate you and give him attitude. like when he walks into your yard to pick your mom up, turn on the sprinkler or let your imagination do what you want. and if your mom gets mad, tell your mom the truth.
2007-11-10 06:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by percy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom that you dont like him and if she dates him and he makes your mom happy thats always a good thing, as long as he treats her good, but its ok if you dont approve of him, My dad passed away when I was 10, I know how you feel
2007-11-10 06:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own business and deal with it.
2007-11-10 06:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by jamel 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋