There is this guy in the eighth grade and I'm in the seventh grade and we have so much in common. Our personalities. Etc. Everybody thinks he's kind of ugly because he's got acne all over his face and his hair isn't brilliant blonde! Any way, I feel an emotional bond with him. I feel like he's the one for me. I don't care if he's ugly or if he has acne, I like him or love him for who he is. Is this lust or am I in love?
2007-11-10 04:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like a crush. It's definately not lust and...well i supose it could be love.
2007-11-10 05:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first off i know in 7th & 8th grade ur emotions and hormones are goin crazy and the feelings ur feelin are prolly new to u so u don't know how to react to them or what they mean, first let me say I think it's wonderful that u don't care what he looks like that u like him for him, wish there were more ppl like u!!! But at this age i really don't think u know what love is yet, and my belief is that u lust someone before u love them, it takes time to love someone, but the 2 feelings are so similar that u can't tell them apart thats the reason for dating, I say go out with eachother and see what u really think about him out of school remember u always find out the real person in time, u may like him now, but u don't know how u would feel later on, thats why it's call lust, to love is to except everything about that persons defaults and all and he would have to do the same for u!!! Think about it first!!! Good Luck i know that age is hard!!!
2007-11-10 13:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obiously a troll.... your attention getting schemes are sad. I read more of your older posts and now I see that not only are you pretending to be pregnant (you can't be pregnant 3 times in 3 months) at the age of 12 with twins triplets and quads but, now I see that you've also claimed to be a boy and your claiming that you have actually already given birth to a full term baby before your many miscarriages.
Your continuously playing on peoples emotions in order to get people to respond to you and feel sorry for you. You also claimed to be in "love" with this guy from England while you were in the midst of yet another miscarriage.
I urge anyone that is even tempted to answer this kids questions please read her other questions first.
To lie is one thing but, to fake birth and miscarriages is despicable. I do feel sorry for you Ms. Born again b/c it's obvious that you crave sympathy and attention but, please stop pulling people in with things like miscarriage and brain tumors (yes folks, she has also played the tumor and cancer card). I have lost a baby and it crushed me.... I have no tolerance for people that lie about such a thing.
2007-11-10 17:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by jo_momma_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful to say that this is love. you are too young to be in love. I would not consider it to be lust because you seem to have a genuine interest in the individual regardless of what people think. Man will judge from the outside but God will judge the heart. Remember that.
2007-11-10 13:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give him a try..all your friends care about is you being happy and if theyre your real friends theyll want the best for you. it can be lust or you can be in love.. i mean 7th grade is a little young for love..but hey if you get tingles whenever you see him and you feel good around him...then what do you think? give it a shot (if your parents allow you to)
2007-11-10 13:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by babayyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in alot of like because love it takes ALOTTTTTTTTTT of time, unless you've known this guy for a long while then yeah maybe you are in love. Lust is when you ONLY like the physical so you your defetnally not in lust. Hope this helped :)
2007-11-10 13:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are by far a better person than most at your age Liston to your hart i think you are to young to know love in a true since but i do believe you have feelings at the end of the day all we have is ourselves don't ever change the way you feel just to fit in good for you for seeing inner beauty GOD has plased you with a good hart
2007-11-10 13:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by irish_matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its hard to say. since you are only in 8th grade i would say lust. but you should give him a try. dont listen to others. listen to your own feelings. try it out and see if he is a good person, then go on from there. love is not about looks.
2007-11-10 13:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by doo4doodoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanted to ditto the above! You need help! I too have suffered 3 miscarriages and it makes me sick to think that you feel its okay to lie about things like this!! I hope to God that when you, finally, grow up this doesnt come back to haunt you.
Read this girls other questions before answering please!
2007-11-11 08:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love sees no mistakes!! You’ve hit the treasure!!!
2007-11-10 13:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by yasiru K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋