at lunch yesterday my friends walked up to this girl and told her that i was tryin to go wit her and drew a big crowd her brother was there and a whole buch of other people and we just like yea we know eachother and then we after a couple of seconds we all left then on our way back to our class my friend saw her tryed to talk to her again and i pulled him away by the hood as im walkin by and she follows us and says wat is yo friend try to say even tho he said it all ready and he put his arm round both of us and was tellin her i want to talk to her and i jus moved his arm off of her and she started gigling and stuff playing oh why u have to hurt me and sayin i scratched her. and went with me in the class room and kept talkin to me.so we both smiling and stuff then class started.then during class instead of only makin eye contact for a couple of seconds it was longer now.but after class i talked to her and sked her if she would go with me and she said no nad also said
2007-11-10 04:07:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that she didnt go wit anybody and that theres alot of people that want to go with her and shes not trying to go wit anybody right now.so then dat was it but then my friend cam up to me and said we need to talk and then he told me that he went with her.i asked why he didnt tell me sooner.so after school at her locker and just pulled her by her shoulder and she started giggling again and sayin rubbing her arm sayin dat hurt her and stuff but still smiling.and i said how come u didnt tell me u went with nathaniel (the boy that told me he went with her) she said she didnt really say she didnt go with nobody even tho shwe did say that she also said she doesnt know who nathaniel is.even tho that must be a lie because their tables are right next to eachother at lunch so.why would she lie to be nice or somthing
2007-11-10 04:07:19 · update #1
look, i understand that you are upset about this young lady. i realize that you are not a typist. but, it is really hard to follow the conversation with sssooooo many typos.
with that say. how old are you 10? look she is free to talk to, smile with. look at ... anyone she pleases. this IS America (the land of the 'reasonably' free)
okay may she did (or did NOT say) she was not interested in anybody at this time...but the other really good thing about living in America is the freedom to change one's mind.
maybe she should have been more honest....like YOU have NEVER lied or MISlead someone.
2007-11-10 04:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by bi2unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she didn't want to go with anybody to save your feelings. She obviously has a thing for Nathaniel, but she likes you as a friend and doesn't want to hurt you. Take this advice from a much-older woman who's been there, done that: Be there for her as a friend, and only a friend. You'll end up being her best friend. Plus, part of her attraction to Nathaniel is the forbidden-romance thing; there's that element of fear in there -- fear of hurting your feelings. When it becomes obvious that her relationship with Nathaniel is no big deal to you, it will then become no big deal to HER. At that point, there will be no thrill for her in Nathaniel, and they will start to have problems. Eventually they will break up, and guess whose shoulder she will be crying on? That's right -- YOURS. While she's crying on your shoulder about what a jerk Nathaniel turned out to be, go ahead and slip your arm around her ...
2007-11-10 12:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by bouncyfun1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red flag no 1 she says she doesnt want to go out with anybody . Because she already has somebody. And it may even be somebody shes not really sure of but she talks to hangs with but at the same time doesnt want to let go of .
2007-11-10 12:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by R K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, your over reacting, maybe there are just a lot of people who want to go with her and she dont want to go with any single person. Screw it! if she said she don't want to go than find another hot girl to go with. Just leave it alone and go and have a good time. you also don't want to seem all obsessed or desperate. As for your frien he was just messing with you and rub it in his face she does not even know who he is.
2007-11-10 12:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Italian Stallion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a lot of rambling. no offense. um... i think that maybe she wold be embarrassed if her friends knew she went with ur friend. also dont be so mean, dont hurt her and tell her not 2 hurt u. your friend probably didnt tell you because he didnt want 2 hurt ur feelings (only in the guy way, i guess).
2007-11-10 12:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit the return/enter now and again reading one huge block of text is hard work,
be a friend to the girl and see what happens. don't rush
2007-11-10 12:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people (boys and girls) play this kind of game, where they don't want to do something with YOU, at least right now, but they want to keep their options open.
Yeah, it isn't very kind. Yeah, it happens a lot.
2007-11-10 12:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The text is nigh on hypnotising.
Put in some punctuation and clean up your spelling and I might bother to read.
2007-11-10 12:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she obviously doesnt deserve you if she chooses your mate over you and dont let a girl come between you just forget about her shes not worth it
2007-11-10 12:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give up she's not all that...... If she was worth all that, she would no a good man are boy when she see one.
2007-11-10 12:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋