Well I told him that I am not ready to be in a relationship but we are good friends. He usually expresses his feeling though but now he told me that maybe we are not meant to be. I like him a lot but I don't want to be in a relationship due to school (college) and I never had a boyfriend. I used to being single I don't express my feeling as much as he does. He been pursuing me 5 months. Do you think he is right? Do you sense when you are meant to be and are you usually right?
He doesn't want to be friends anymore but he says it will be tough to not call me. He says I don't give him enough attention. However, I told him beforehand hat I am busy with classes and I can be his friend for now and I like him.
Now he called me several times but I did not call him back
2007-11-10 03:52:49 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good ! don't get in touch with silly guys.
2007-11-10 03:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is always hard for the person who has feelings to be friends with you because they will always hope that your feelings for them will change.if you are honest with them and dont lead them on then you can stay friends and having a chat and coffee now and then doesnt hurt . the problems start when you get a boyfriend then what happens
2007-11-10 04:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by CAROL N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart,you owed it to him to give your best in the relationship as soon as you accepted to go out with him so it is not an issue of you having told him you were not ready.but if you search yourself and find that you have given your best,no need to worry yourself.he has to understand that you need to devote your time to your studies.also,if you love him,you should try to let him know.if you are shy to say,then show him so he does`nt think that you don`t care.
2007-11-10 04:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by fleur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is wrong for not wanting to be your friend, you need to finsh school and then find a man.....if he cant wait for you then forget about him. good luck
2007-11-10 04:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him what u wrote here
2007-11-10 04:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by shinersd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call him you were honest with him so don't avoid him you will respect you more if you are not avoiding him
2007-11-10 03:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by irish_matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋