ME~ If a guy tries to convince you into sex and you arent ready and you are scared he will leave you , THEN KNOW THIS he WILL leave you after sex !! Bcuz that is all he wants !
OK NEXT!!!
2007-11-10 03:10:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
geez ! give a little advice . dont write a damn book !
2007-11-10 03:18:24 · update #1
Don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see!
2007-11-10 03:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm it really depends.. if you have a 14, 15 16 17 year old girl with an older guy in the 20-30 is just CRAZY...that guy should know to not go there. Young girls are naive and will listen to a guy telling them things.. Now when a female is 21 22 23 and she is dating a guy in the late 20s to 30s its more realistic...it has been said that females mature faster then men. like i will use my relationship for example.. im 21 and my fiance is 29 i met him when i was 19 and he was 27. We are so in love and it is real. My friend is 19 and she is involved with a 37 year old man...i belive he is just using her for some young stuff. When a man is very much older than a female like 19 and 37 its just too much of a distance in age.. I belive the girls are just being naive, and should b more careful...the men just want something young and dumb that will give it up.. just being real! ive seen these situations.
2016-05-29 01:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by kaitlyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married young.
Don't have babies at a young age it is very hard to take care of them if you are doing it on your own.
Go to school and finish then college, then a career and then when you feel good about your life the right guy will come along and you know it will be the one, because he found you, don't look for him. All men are pigs even the good ones.
2007-11-10 05:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you conduct yourself now, will stay with you the rest of your life! You are setting your course for who you will be as an adult. When we're all grown up ~ people still remember who you were back in the day! You can never hide from your past. It maybe 20-30 yrs after highschool, but it'll still be the same, we just get wiser or NOT!! - your choice!
2007-11-10 03:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex until you are ready and protection, protection, protection. Know the guy for a while. There are too many out there that lie about lots of things. If you trust them with your life than I would wait a little longer. If they are the one that is truely there for you they will wait.
2007-11-10 03:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say learn your worth!! All these young girls are getting pregnant and trying to get pregnant b/c they do not know how much their body is worth! Have safe sex, your man will end up leaving you and you'll be a single mom struggling to raise your kid. Grow up first!
2007-11-10 03:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best love starts as young friendship. When that time in your life is gone, well, what can I say. When you don't need convincing, I guess it's about right, isn't it.
2007-11-10 12:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the person asking you for advice. Every situation is unique, so never assume you know all you need to know about a problem. Listen carefully to the person who wants advice, and learn as much as possible about the situation. If you need clarification, ask questions. Being an active listener will not only help you give good advice, it will also increase the chances that the person will take your advice.
Put yourself in the advisee's shoes. Try to imagine yourself in the other person's situation. If you've been in a similar situation, think about what you learned, but don't rely solely on your experiences to give advice--imagine that you are giving yourself advice for the unique circumstances that the other person is facing.
Think about the consequences of taking your advice. While you're at it, think about the consequences of not taking your advice. If there's no significant difference between the results of those two scenarios, your advice might not be bad, but it's not useful either. Ditto if the action you advise is impossible. If you can envision the path you suggest leading to a worse result than an alternative path would, your advice probably is bad.
Take your time. When possible, think long and hard about all the possible courses of action and consider the pros and cons (or the benefits and costs) of each. This is especially important for more complex problems.
Think about both the short term and long term consequences of your advice. Very important decisions are usually very important because of their long term effects. Think as far down the road as possible.
Empathize. Many matters require sensitivity and thoughtfulness. If you really try to put yourself in the other person's shoes (as suggested above), empathy will probably develop naturally. Even so, be very careful about how you word your advice and be sensitive to the other person's feelings and emotional state. Giving advice is more than a logical exercise. It usually involves helping a person sort through conflicting emotions as much as conflicting choices.
Brainstorm with the person. Sometimes there is no clearcut right answer to a problem. In this case, try to help the person mull over all the alternatives so that he or she can reach a conclusion together with you or on their own. Even for very simple questions, it can be beneficial to help the person develop his or her own advice, if only for the reason that he or she is more likely to take it.
Be honest. If your advised course of action has potential drawbacks, tell the person about them. If you don't really feel qualified or knowledgeable enough about something to give advice on it, be honest about this fact. Your goal should not be to blindly lead the person, but rather to help him or her make a good decision, so don't act like a salesman.
Set a good example. If you advise one thing but do the opposite, your advice will be seen as phony and hypocritical. If you do as you say, however, people will be more likely to respect your advice.
Understand that the person may not take your advice. Just because someone asks for your advice, they are not obligated to take it. Realize that the other person almost always knows more about their particular situation and desires than you do, so you can never be sure that your advice is really the best for them. Understand that people will sometimes ask advice just in order to bounce ideas off of you, and don't be surprised if a person rejects even good advice and decides to make his or her own mistake. Live with it, and let the person live with his or her decision.
2007-11-10 03:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
great advice.
You cant change a person. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink, or whatever they say. If you dont like who they are, then they arent right for you.
2007-11-10 03:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather give advice to young men: Older women will generalize about you and assume you are a jerk with no feelings.
2007-11-10 03:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋