ok really there is 3 problems
!. i'm really shy
2. we don't even talk
3. i have 2 friends that r friends with him and i don't know how they'll react to my telling them that i like him
so can anyone help me out?
2007-11-10 03:00:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a handy little invention called the phone. Or, you have email.
Try to talk to him on this at first, and see where it goes.
2007-11-10 03:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you just let your friends know that you like him, they will respond well to it if they are your friends. They know you, so they know you must be serious to tell them this and they know him, so they can let you know if, in light of that confession, there is something you need to know about him, too. At least they should be willing to drop the hint to him and you can all figure out his response to that news. You may as well get moving. though, before he finds someone else! That would be painful to watch. So tell them and ask them what they think, then tell them you do not know how to tell him and ask if they could drop the hint to him and see how he reacts - easy, eh? I know it will make you really, really nervous and it may not work out, but you will hate it if you do not at least try to find out how he feels. He may not know how you feel and if you are shy he might need the hint from someone else so he can scope you out and think about you a little before he answers. Talk to your friends soon.
2007-11-10 03:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's OK just tell them they wont make fun of you or anything mean. if they are your friends then tell them so they can help you out. But do you think it will work if you and him don't talk to each other and all of the sudden he finds out that you like him? I'm sorry but he probably don't like you because he does not know anything about you. But here is and advice you can follow: try to go to him and chat with each other and then start knowing him more better so that he will know you and maybe he will like you then you guys can go out. Hopefully you follow this advice and good luck.
2007-11-10 03:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Izzy wizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.It's ok to be shy. I am kinda shy with guys too. Don't worry about that too much.
2.Try talking to him. Nothing too personal, just casual talk, like if you were best friends. If he ignores you and tries to push you away, maybe that's a sign to you that he's not wiling to be friends. Most likely he'll talk to you. Just be friends with him for a while and while you're doing that try to info about him. Like what his hobbies are and things he likes to talk about. Then show him that you're interested in being more then friends. If he shows you that he doesn't feel that way about you, try to act like you're fine with that. He probably will think about and make some sort of decision.
3.Unless you're friends are crazy about him or like him too, they will or should be fine with it.
I really hope this helps!
2007-11-10 03:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by snyderljs_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate, but you don't always HAVE to have the confidence to go up and say "I like you". Just "accidently" bump into him, talk about stuff (try to stay away from talking about relationships), maybe about music you and he likes.
Oh yeah, if the stuff I just said goes well, you might wanna stay clear of other girls while your walking with him, just in case they like him too, and the next thing you know your left alone watching him asking the other girl out.
So just be casual, start talking about relationships and stuff later.
2007-11-10 03:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Blacklisted. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you should be straight forward with your friends because they migt be able to help if they are friends w/ him. Also i never talked 2 my b/f before and he just got a thing for me when i liked him. I am very shy too and to tell you the truth i think guys like it when were shy. I htink it gives them the feeling that they have control over the relationship.
2007-11-10 03:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Swims_4_lyfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all you need to get over the shy thing. try talking to him or just saying hi to him. other-wise he isn't going to notice u and therefore never like u that way. probably the reason he doesn't talk to u is because of that. guys have the tendency to think that the girl is ignoring them and think your a snob. if your friends over react about u liking him then that's their fault. they'll eventually get over it. and they will probably understand why u like him because they do too. good luck!
2007-11-10 03:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by j-lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a problem just like this. Try talking to him. One time I just " tripped" into him just to say sorry to him. Dont do the " trip" thing. It doesnt work. I had my best friend into him. i had a lot of trouble saying that i liked the same guy as her. She was really mad at me. After awhile she said she was okay with me liking him. Good Luck!
2007-11-10 03:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by aberham2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be really shy to so I know how ya feel there but you just have to talk to him, its the only way to overcome your shyness, the more people you talk to the less shy you become. And tell your 2 friends they may be able to help.
2007-11-10 03:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to do this over the internet if you are really that shy. (msn/MIRC chats, e-mails)
If not, get a common activity, from there you and him got a special common ground to work things out.
Do not tell your friends, the girl network spreads news like wild fire, im sure you know. Its least recommended.
2007-11-10 03:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋