i dont know what it is about this leo guy but he sometimes stares at me but dont say nothing. then next day he says something to me and talkin all loud and stuff. Its about time he even said something to me for all these 9 months. He knew i liked him and he talked to me one time and that was last week on holloween and monday this week i passed by him in the hall way and he whispered my name and i turned around to see what he wanted and we ended up staring into each other eyes and he didnt say nothin. But he just be staring at me. He giving me mixed signals and i dont kno what to do. On the first day of school, he was just staring at me from across the gym and he had his friends lookin at me like their talkin about me. Can yall please help me out about this guy cause i'm confused and i dont know what to do.
2007-11-10 01:52:26 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say "Hey! What's up with you?! Could you possibly be falling for me? Hmmm??" In a jokingly way of course! See what he does and see what he might say. That's probably the only way you are going to get this one to spill his real feelings...
2007-11-10 01:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Celtic Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of read a little something like this from the last book I read. I actually forgot the title of the book but anyway, it says that there could only be two reasons why a guy looks at you. It could be either that he likes what he's looking at, or actually criticizing it. However, I can relate to you when you say a guy is giving you a lot of confusing mixed signals. I mean, I myslef went through a little something like that way back then.
You said a little something like his friends are all looking at you, right? Well, I'm not quite sure about that. So anyway, can you tell me something about his friends? Are they all good people?
By the way, here's a little something. You say there have been lots of times wherein you've accidentally bumped into each other by fate, right? Well, I can't really comprehend upon something like that since I kind of went through that as well. So here's my little answer, try to observe whether he also acts that same way upon other girls. Because, by this way you can see whether he's the real thing or just a little bit too playful. Well, I'm not telling you to stalk. I mean, NEVER stalk. Stalking kind of gives off a repelling effect.
So, anyway, I hoped this helped.
By the way, don't panic, girl.
2007-11-10 10:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Marj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how old he is. I gather you are both still in high school. You know a lot of guys in high school can be pretty macho around their male friends but also be complete ******* when the time comes to pull the trigger and finally ask some girl out. He probably chickens out. Try getting some friend to ask him questions about you without him knowing you sent them...
2007-11-10 09:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by curiosity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is very hard to wait it out but that is the best thing to do. Unfortunately, young men in their teens especially are VERY IMMATURE and do not know how to act. He obviously is very attracted to you. Just keep your cool and be confident yourself and just smile and talk to him if you have the chance but don't force it. Most guys do not like a pushy or desperate acting girls. Remember boys do not think in the same terms as girls do in relationships. They are more concerned about their sex drive than their emotional needs being met. Most importantly, it pays to pray for strength, wisdom and knowledge on how to behave in all of our ways.
2007-11-10 10:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by escapee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like mixed signals to me. He likes you but doesn't know how to tell you without feeling weird. If you make the first move he will become more confident and be able to talk to you in a normal way.
2007-11-10 09:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh well if i was you, i would forget about him and move on to another guy who will show you he really likes you ect..
that leo guy seems like a right knob lol.. no offence, i think hes maybe messing you around bcoz he no's you like him.
2007-11-10 09:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well jasmine do u like him if so just ask him if he likes u or are y'all better off of being friends you'll never know if u don't ask but give him sometime guys have their weird ways of telling girls stuff
but anyway it goes hope you figure out an answer
2007-11-10 10:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweet p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes u but he's to shy to make his first move y don't u try asking him out if u still like him :} maybe his friends like u 2 :D
2007-11-10 09:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by ☺♥ Turkish Delight ♥☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him and say hi how are u doing ? Do you like me ? Its hard but if you do that he might know that you are brave ehough to walk up to him with no fear.
2007-11-10 09:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kat J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u but he is imuture
2007-11-10 09:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by A@ron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋