My girlfriend of about 3 months recently broke up with me. She is a model but didn't have a lot of work or money, whereas I do. She gave great sex all the time and took good care of me emotionally and was nice. I began to resent her for never paying, rarely making gestures, not helping clean around the house when she was around - even though she contributed to the mess. I was working a lot and got stressed out and occasionally did money-selfish things. She broke up with me, but I played it back to lets be friends, and we stayed together pretty much. Then, I took her to Vegas to revitalize things. Here, she said hurtful things to me like telling me how her last boyfriends were nicer and more giving. I blew her off. Then, I made her cry because she thought I was going to leave her when leaving her in the hotel the last day. After a few days - she sent me an email about how I have the weakest character of anyone she's ever met and never wants to talk to me again. What do I do?
2007-11-10 01:23:32 · 17 answers · asked by rocker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her email:
Please stop writing me emails calling and sending texts. I dont want anyting to do with you. Get a clue. I really dont want to have to change my phone number. There is nothing more to talk about nothing you can do to change my mind. So just go on wiht your life. I dont like u after these few months ive realized who you are and im not attracted to that at all you have the weakest character ive ever seen in my life. Im not saying this to piss you off, its how i feel about you. and thanks for making me feel like a ******* $5 bouquet of shitty *** grocery store flowers thats how much i mean to? I love how your email makes it look like you dont want me anymore whatever i dont even care just leave me alone. I dont want to be friernds with you in the future I dont want people like you in my life. So no we wont talk again I mean that. I hope you find a girl that you can take baths of money in and sleep iin a bed made of money and in your down time
2007-11-10 01:25:56 · update #1
down time talk all about money and how much you can get out of people and how much money you have in the bank there are plenty of girls out there like that. Oh and also girls you can lie to and push and yell and get pissed off everyday that will take it.Dont you get it we arent right for each other. I dont want to be with you. I want to be happy and you dont give me that. Please dont respond to this I dont want to hear from you ever again.
In Vegas, I regret it, but I gently pushed her away from me when she was being cruel.
2007-11-10 01:26:58 · update #2
You were only together 3 months, and she moved in with you? Sounds like she was using you. After 3 months, sparks should still be flying, you shouldn't have to go to Vegas to "revitalize" things. I think you are better of without her.
2007-11-10 01:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you had vested in a mere three months with this girl is worth half this much melodrama.
Break it off, burn the stump, delete the phone numbers and email addys and bookmarks, don't (REALLY don't) bother with a "final retaliation" message in any media.
Game over. The only winning move is to walk away from the board. If she tries to reconcile, rebuff it clearly. If she tries that wretched "let's be friends" gambit -- why o why does ANYONE, EVER, do this??? -- tell her "I have enough friends."
Crawl out of this smoking crater and move on.
2007-11-10 09:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u stupid ? u were ******* a model for free and u blew everything up !! really stupid.. Other guys spend fortunes to be with such girls. u really didn't know what u had till u lost her ham ?!
I suggest you send her some expensive gift, a rolex a something that would realy show your apreciation to her.
Believe me this is not a waste of money but an investment: 1 night with a model will cost u no less than 500$ so make your calculation !
2007-11-10 09:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I say I know its very hard t get over your love. But you need to wake up a little bit. You deserve so much better she doesnt sound to good of a girlfriend. So this is what you do get over her eat some ice cream while your watching bugs bunny or tweety bird and forget about her. When your better and things go find your right girl for her shes just around the corner waiting for you. GO get her!!!=)
2007-11-10 09:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want you close where you can stay forever,
you can be assured that it will only get better...
I dont' worry cause everything is gonna be alright.
in somecases it just ain't soo..
so move on. find someone to love you
love you for you and your smile.
and your heart of gold ...
you will always be a friend but times change, and a new love will come along.
one worthy of your unconditional, love.
and no one will get in the way of what a real lady will feel for you.
tell her you hope she finds someone she deserves(let that be all the explanation you need)
2007-11-10 09:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Find someone with a brain. Shes NOT worth it. You will be VERY glad in the future that you DIDNT hook up with her. Shes the B word and maybe even the C word. Move on. Youll be a lot happier.
2007-11-10 09:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Abolir Las Farc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts but I think it's best to leave things the way they are and move on.It's obvious she doesn't want you anymore so let her be.Learn your lesson and move on.She's immature too-saying how nice her ex were infront of you.If they were that nice why isn't she with them.If you make an effort to get back with her and she hasn't overgrown this immature behaviour,you can't keep her for long.
2007-11-10 09:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should realize that you can't buy love. It's not what you HAVE, it's who you are that matters. She knows this and has moved on.
What should you do? Learn something from this experience and be a nicer, more giving (of yourself) person. Maybe you can actually hang on to someone if you do.
2007-11-10 09:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's right, you're a shallow dick. Forget about her before she gets a restraining order. Move on and let her hook up with a MAN that deserves her. I can't believe you're that stupid and still capable of using a computer.
2007-11-10 09:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Ben Dover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it wasn't really a meaningful relationship,
if she moved in after three months...
she was looking for money, and you were looking for sex
(just my observation, no offense)
i'd say there's nothing really to do..
stop calling, move on,
if you just want sex, find a hooker.
if you want a serious relationship, look for some one who is not so ready to sleep with you.
2007-11-10 09:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by crazygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋