How do i get my mum to talk to me again?

Question

Basically been arguing all week over stuff that hasn't been my fault to be honest && now she says she dont trust me && she wont let me out anywhere (this is really bad because i really need some foundation 8-) ) && my boyfriend took the night off tonight so i could go see him but my mum purposely made me babysit for this other person child so they can go out!! But she didnt ask me her self she speaks through my dad...even my dad is saying it is pathetic!!!

I dont know how to get her to talk to me again or to regain trust? Can anyone help me?

I try to speak to her but she blocks me out && wont even talk to me...not even to shout at me..it has never been as bad as this...she says am ashamed of her :S

Answer 1

Honey, she's your mum; give her time and she'll come around. How can she purposely "make" you do anything without your consent? Don't be bullied by her and don't let her control you. If you really want to resolve the relationship you should sit her down and have it out with her and be really honest. If she is unwilling to listen then walk away, as hard as that would be. She has to realise that there are 2 people in this argument and she has take her fair share of the blame. She's your mum, she loves you unconditionally and cannot live without you in her life forever. She'll come around, just be strong and wait for her to come to you but don't let her abuse you or make you feel "duty bound" to her. Good luck.

Answer 2

this is a hard one to help give you an answer. You don't say what the real problem is?
As a mother myself, the only suggestion that I have is to make your mother listen to you and hear your point of view. Sorry that I could not help you anymore that that rite now.

Answer 3

if she says ur ashaemd of her u prolly gave her a reson..but be nice to herrr... cook for her clean the house... kiss her and tell her u love her... just show that u care.