God has everything planned for me.. and his plan is always the best. But that is only because He's got it planned out for me, right? I love and respect God but I'm a little irritated now because I had to let go of a boyfriend that i love and care for so much.. and YES, it was my fault for letting things get out of hand and yes, it was my fault for making it my priority. I admit that i should have let God handle it.. But apparently, according to my praying and stuff, it is not what God has planned him.
So i'm willing to let him go because i believe that God has so much more planned out for him. Someone who won't make it complicated. Someone who will make him happy.
I just wished it was me.
we both love each other very much, but this is the best i can do for him.
i'm just mad he wasn't the one.. and i wasn't the one for him.
i guess i can't change God's mind.
but i can still want him and love him right?
PLease someone.. some advice please
2007-11-10 00:19:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It has been my experience that throughout life, some of the most difficult times and trials, have later turned into the biggest and brightest blessings....
i hope you find what it is you seek. take solace in knowing that nothing happens in this world by mistake..
blessings and hope to you
)o( trinity
2007-11-10 02:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by trinity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW FOR SOMEONE SOO YOUNG U PRETTY MUCH HAVE IT TOGETHER . THE way u started it was good and the message in between about it being your fault was unusual .
I get the impression your young but its ok u have learned more than many that are much older hehehe,, ilike the part where u say you mad at GOD TOO .. hehehe , YOU know GOD is big enough to take it too..YOU didnt say what happened though so we dont get a clear picture.. JONAH WAS angry and irritated at GODFOR SPARING THE LIVES OF those living in NIVENAH,, he even had a pity party! GOD even had a plant rise up over night to protect him from the searing heat to show him a lesson hehehe! but also caused a worm to eat the plant so that it shriveled up.. .
JONAH GOT EVEN MORE angry and irritated to .. anyway U SAY U STILL love this man but its for your good you had to let go.. hmm,, well in time you will move on and yes you will look back at this time too but when another comes along that is the right one u will be thankful that you waited. AT TIMES WE DO THINK WE HAVE TO DO SOMETHING ourself like when abraham laid with hagaar the egyptian handmaid of sarah to obtain a son., faith is letting go of our own observations and allowing GOD the time to work it out himself .. please dont try to change GODS mind . solomon tried this and it failed soon or later in life compromises were made that led to spiritual spiraling down until he was worshiping other gods.. ,, GOD sometimes gives in to our pleading but says their will be a price u will have to pay for not following my will..
we be sooo hard headed at times . JUST to add a litle just what bat girl had said, I followed through with it though she seemed to love GOD but the roots or seed fell on thorny ground and would not grow it was A miserable. 3years MJ
2007-11-10 08:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take some time off; to go on a retreat where you can consider what you want from a life partner. It is reckless to narrow all your feelings onto one person when he/she does not reciprocate the same.
Ask yourself what is it you want in a life partner. Ask yourself do I know what is best for me or does God? If God shows me the right person won't he/she love me as much as I love him/her?
Prayer, meditation and reflection are useful disciplines to foster your thoughts to a logical answer.
God loves you and wants the best for your life. Let God decide and show you the right person at the right time. What God has joined together let no man break.
2007-11-10 08:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by happy_magooo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God makes plans and all his plans come to be. He does not make plans for you specifically, he does allow you to see his plans and he allows you to enter into his plans if you so desire.
This means that you follow his requirements, to do this you need to accurately understand his letters to you.
This is not asking to much if you are seeking the reward he offers. John 17:3. His son Jesus made a statement at Mathew 5:5, because he knew what his father promised at Psalms 37:9-11,29. Many people say the Lords prayer at Mathew 6:9,10, but few bother to understand what it is they are asking? Try Daniel 2:44, Revelation 21:3,4.
God wanted you to come to an accurate understanding of his word the bible and then teach others what it says. his son gave you this command Mathew 28:18,19.
Remember 2 Timothy 3:16.
2007-11-10 08:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by gem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does not have anything planned out for you. The future is in your hands. The future of the world is also in all our hands. God will guide us and inspire us, but we must do the work, to make a difference in our own life, and a difference in the world, by contributing positively to it. God's main concern, is that people, overall contribute positively to this world. Pray/meditate, do mind-body exercises, eat healthy, don't overindulge, and look for good inspiration, in all possible sources. This will make you stronger spiritual, and help you get better inspiration with God's guidance.
2007-11-10 08:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship is a partnership…that should include our Lord
Do you trust God? Do you believe he has perfect timing… God has a plan for your life.
Seek him, acknowledge him and trust him...pray, read the word and believe in him.
Psalm 31:24
Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD
2007-11-10 08:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by ' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
according to the Bible people changed God's mind by prayer lots of time. In the book of Jonah the city repented and God did not destroy them like he was going to. Moses prayed and ask God not to destroy the Israelites, for worshiping the golden calf, and so God changed his mind.
Are you sure God told you to let this boyfriend go? Do you hear from God often? Did God tell you that he has something or someone different and better for you? If you hear from God like you think then ask him what is going on. But if it is your church/religion/pastor or whatever then you better beware 'cause alot of people say God told them to tell you and it turns out not true.
When I first started going to church I was told that I had to leave my husband in order to please God. I did not believe or obey them and I am glad I didn't.
2007-11-10 08:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by just because 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand ur question,its kind of vague,but I believe one of the basis of Christianity is freewill.God does not force anyone in the choice they make but He has set up guidelines and rules to help in making choices.
I don't know the criteria you used in determining your boyfriend was not the one for you. but if you followed those guidelines and found out by yourself that your boyfriend was not the one for you then plz let him go.
If not ,my advice is there is no broken relationship that cannot be fixed if the love still exist.GO FOR HIM
2007-11-10 08:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by sphinix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian - and I am also gay - and I know about struggles in relationships believe me!
But before I could answer your question - in honesty and compassion - I would really need to know how old you are.
I mean for example, if you are 19 - the answer would be totally different than if you are 34.
2007-11-10 08:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did not say, is that God made you let go of that boyfriend..... and that is the key to your understanding.....
because of your free will. All things for purpose, and all things done by our own choice.
It is not that God has prevented you, but, you have prevented yourself on the basis of choice.
Instead of saying, "hey God, why'd you do this to me?!" Ask yourself, "Hey, me?! What did I do to get myself into this?" Because that is truely the answer.....
Just remember, all things for purpose! Where one door closes, another opens. And if we have learned by the last mistake we made, we shall be mindful to not find ourselves in that position again. and perhaps, it is good for you, that you are not in that relationship. All things for purpose! Start looking up!!! and be you faithful always!!!
Your sister,
Ginger
2007-11-10 08:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋