i am considered hot, attractive, cute most of the time and pretty the other of the time. yet i dont have a boyfriend. i am nearly 18 and just feel as though i am missing out.
many guys give me the long hard stare. i dont know what this is but its a bit weird.
because i am of a mixed race, being half chinese and half european, people can't work out my race lol.
so what is this? why dont i get asked out?
am i still young?
2007-11-09 20:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a male i feel i can answer this question extremely accurately. If you are in fact very attractive, the reason you may just be receiving the long looks and nothing else is because you come off intimidating. Guys are looking at you and because of your level of attractiveness assuming your already taken or your body language is screaming back off! You need to maybe take more control and put yourself out more. Let guys see that your fun and not overly serious and they'll be lined up asking for dates. Make sure that if you see a guy you want, to give him eye contact that says I'm not taken. You dont have to be the aggresser but let the guy feel comftorable in his decision to approach you. FYI, if you dont follow my advice the only guys that will ask you out are ugly desperate guys, players, or heart breakers. The guys worth getting will only be got by these tips. Good Luck!
2007-11-09 21:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are still young. Some asian girls tend to look younger than they are to a european eye. It may be that they find you attractive but are put off by thinking that you may be too young. If you are really finding it hard then try a dating site. They are not full of sad sicko's (although there are some and they get around a lot lol) and some are free. Chat to someone online for a while and get to know them that way before you meet. www.plentyoffish.com is a good place to start as its free and you can filter who can contact you by things like age, marital status, location, and whether they are there for intimate encounters or long term etc. I'm sure it will work out for you.
2007-11-10 05:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by mickstocks2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so i might not answer all of those. but i can answer one thing for sure. guys giving you a long hard stare is because they find your looks very exotic and attractive. i know a few eurasians and hey, i'll admit it, i stare at them too! cuz their looks are interesting. like, if you see someone thats 100% asian, you can tell right away. but mixed people are just fascinating.
maybe guys are just shy. why dont you try asking them out? yea, you're still a bit young and perhaps you could try focusing more on your dreams. it took me a long time to understand that just thinking about things like this is a waste of time and whatever happens, happens. if nothing happens, you have to make it happen. =]
2007-11-11 19:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your still young. Guys don't care much about race(even less if you are hot).
Top three reasons a guy does not ask out a hot girl:
1.Hot girls tend to ignore everyone around them, guys included. So with no sign from the hot girl that she might like him, most guys will stay away.
2.Most hot girls have boyfriends, so guys generally ignore hot girls as taken.
3.Most guys think they are too ugly or poor to have a hot girl, so they ignore them. Most guys have tried a couple time to get a hot girl...and got burned. So why waste the time.
2007-11-10 05:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not missing out!
Having a boyfriend can sometimes add alot of problems to your life.
My suggestion is have fun with your friends. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend. And who knows, maybe while you are out with your friends you will meet a great guy!
Enjoy being young and single while you can!
2007-11-10 05:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by ladyelfstone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get looks all the time too. i'm cute & hot too. but, i don't have a boyfriend either. i don't know why.
oh well. i'm glad that there's someone else out there with the same concern on their mind.
2007-11-10 05:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by ohsohot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very uncommon to hear this from girls. Hey! nothing to worry about very soon, you'll be posting questions on how to say no to a guy.
2007-11-10 05:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jay U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. slow down, ur not 40. not having a bf is not the end of the world. u have many years to find someone to date. concentrate on school. and idk maybe they are trying to figure out ur race. or here is an idea, u ask someone out.
2007-11-10 05:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by ksblue594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you dont need a boyfriend to justify your attractiveness. be confident, you dont need a guy to feel complete.
2007-11-10 05:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i havethe same prob..just wait till itcome along
2007-11-10 05:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by NAI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋