I said some mean things that were not true just to make her mad so she would stop calling. Now I regret what I said. We havent spoken to each other since. I want to be her friend but I dont know how to go about it. What should I do?
2007-11-09 20:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She did a lot of mean things to me too. But I'm over it.
2007-11-09 20:52:26 · update #1
not be her friend! think about it dude...right now everything that she does or what she thinks is out of sight out of mind...but if you open that "friendship door" like most girls want ...think about what you will have to deal with...you will haqve to deal with all her crap..listen to her *****..all this stuff without the perks....and then what happens when she meets someone else..your going to hear about how mcuh she likes him and you will see them together....sounds like alot of crap that you really dont have to deal with man...if you want send her a letter saying your sorry for what you lied about...but going and being her friend you really need to think about that one..
2007-11-09 20:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ispeakfreely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, this may be best left alone. if you trash talked about her, chances are, word got around, and she does not esteem you highly. if you wanted, you could call her, or better yet, go to her in person. tell her how terribly sorry you are, and how you wish things hadnt ended the way they did, and if she could find it in her heart to forgive you, you would love to try to be freinds again.
dont be surprised if you get the door slammed on you, undoubtedly, she is still mad. you cant just expect things to be okay after an apology, but if you work at it, im sure you can be freinds again. show her you are trust worthy, try to spend some time with her to show her that is not how you will be in the future, but dont expect it. this stuff takes time. she was hurt, im sure, and forgiveness is a process, not a once and done thing.
2007-11-09 20:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by rhay ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps write an email starting with:
I mean only to be good friends and I feel the need to apologise for the untrue things I said. Sorry if they hurt your feelings, I wanted you to stop calling. Tell her she is an important friend to you.
2007-11-09 20:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard to say your sorry,but in this case
especially an apology is in order.
after all you said the mean things were not true and you
want her back as a friend.
don,t let too much time pass, say you are sorry.
good luck!
2007-11-09 20:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by vukcevic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in person, apologize and be very honest about your feelings, why you acted that way and how you want your relationship with her to be. Good Luck!
2007-11-09 20:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by imshakin09 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your too mean and self centered to be her friend..and why do you think she'd want to be friends with a loser?
2007-11-09 20:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go back out with her
2007-11-09 20:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say sorry jerk
2007-11-09 20:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by steve a 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋