Im a virgin and i want to wait to have sex untill im married but my boyfriend is so sexy and irrestitble i dont think i can hold out much longer i need to no should i give it up to him are not we been going out for 9 months now. And yea maybe he is the one i want to marry but i dont think im ready to give him that part of me yet. He hasnt even forced me to give it up,he hasnt even ask for it at all. Wat should i do?
2007-11-09 20:28:04 · 29 answers · asked by Twix c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-09 20:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bethuel 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't do anything you might possibly regret later on. If he's not pushing you to do it, that's wonderful and totally respectable. You should discuss it with him if you feel like you are ready for it, and if you both are in love and agree that it's time, go for it. Unless either of you are under 17, then in my own personal opinion, you are too young to make that kind of decision. If you are under 17, in my own experience, you can think you are in love and going to stay together forever, but very few people that are high school sweethearts actually stay together after high school and get married. Just make sure it's something you are comfortable with doing and not something you will kick yourself in the butt for later on. And use condoms PLUS birth control pills or whatever other form of birth control.
2007-11-09 20:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ferball 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By the sound of it, you don't seem too concerned with religion which im assuming would be the reason to wait until your married, so it shouldn't be much of a problem. Its really up to whether your ready. I'd personally be more inclined to only because he hasn't asked for it.
2007-11-09 20:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys?
I think if its in your religion then hold true to that,
but if you both want to take that step then go for it.
Just know it will change the way you act in the future (meaning once you start something you dont usually stop- not saying that you would do it all the time though!!)
Hope that helps abit
2007-11-09 20:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I am u...
I will try to contain myself first and see whether he could be trusted as in take care of u your whole life if u had a baby...
Or mayb just keep u company and not throw u away after having sex...
-K-
2007-11-09 20:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kaihoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't asked, where is the problem. Unless it's your desires to do the deed.
If you still believe in sex after marriage, stay that course. Know that you can also believe in sex after a strong and committed relationship.
2007-11-09 20:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Some_guy_from_town 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do whatever your heart tells you.
if u want to wait it out then go for it, but if its something u want to give to him as a gift, then by all means go for it.
he seems like a nice guy and well like he would take it nice and easy.
It doesn't seem like he is gonna leave you, so u can wait until the right moment!
besides after you have it that one time, ur gonna want it all the time!
2007-11-09 20:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by bmxesforlife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, do you really want to wait until you're married and have signed a legally binding contract to find out that you aren't sexually compatible? the two biggest reasons that relationships go bad are money and sex......what happens when you wait and then you find out he just doesn't do it for you in bed? or is too small where it counts? or otherwise you just don't click together in bed? better to find out beforehand and it's alot easier and alot less expensive to get out of.....otherwise, if you don't get on well together in bed one or both of you will ned up cheating and then it's an expensive ugly mess when you have to go through a divorce.....
2007-11-09 20:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Um, I can't answer until I know how old you are. And maybe he wants to wait til marriage too.
2007-11-09 20:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by ThatGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait you will be much happier and have an incredible gift for your husband on your wedding night and more trust and security in your marriage .
2007-11-09 20:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by landnnut 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep your virginity and stay true and principled to the word of God and He will greatly award you in life for staying true to christian ethics. Trust me i am too and I cant let lust and immoral sexuality take over my mortal body I must stay true to what ive been taught from my father.
2007-11-09 20:33:40 · answer #11 · answered by Carl F 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋