Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to;
Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a text messaging service....text them for two month.....meet them only 3 weeks ago from today in person and say that you have moved on, over it, and happy with this new girl. Plus say that you love them already and are going to marry her soon and move her in with you? This meaning that you could get over your ex you supposedly loved even though you say you don't now in just knowing someone personally for 3 weeks????
2007-11-09 18:28:07 · 2 answers · asked by Yeah Right 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
And another thing that bothers me is her rubbing this all in my face and says shes moved on and that she doesnt love me.....would it take you meeting someone else to realize you didn't love the person you were with? I would like opinions on that too bcuz to me I don't think that is right. And she is 28 yrs old. I am 26. And the ring she supposedly got from her gf...she paid for with her own money!!!!! And she only left me 3 months ago and the first 2 months...she kept telling me she loves me and misses me and wants to know I am serious and that there was no one else then bam all of a sudden this! Another part to this question is.....She has bipolar and to me doesn't act like herself at all...in the 5 years I have dated her, I have never seen her this cruel...cuz another mean thing she said is..."I dont love you, get over it" ....she is also spending money like crazy and not paying off the bills and that is something she would get mad at me about...do you think this could be bipolar?
2007-11-09 18:28:19 · update #1
Why I am asking is cuz I don't understand why she is doing this....and cuz I still LOVE her. I personally don't think someone could spend 5 yrs with someone and then move on in 3 wks to a month. She's really messed up my mind and that's why I am asking for opinions. :(
And if you say it's because she is trying to make me jealous....why is she trying to make me jealous?
2007-11-09 18:28:30 · update #2
I suffer from OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder which is making this situation even the more harder for me. And yes I am getting help. I go to my therapist once every other week and my psychiatrist once a month and am on my meds regularly. I have been going over a year now. I am trying at least...she isn't. Last saturday is the last time I talked to her...it was on the phone and she asked if I was brain dead cuz I asked her a question twice cuz I didn't get what she was trying to say. And let her new gf and friend laugh at me in the background. So I sent her one last txt and said I love you and always have and I hope you have a happy life then. She didn't reciprocate.
2007-11-09 18:28:43 · update #3
You answered your own question. You have BPD and OCD. Get help with the BPD and learn to be responsible for your own happiness.
2007-11-09 19:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ G ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your relationship is over with. Take care of yourself
and look at how you behave with others in your therapy session. Perhaps you hold on too tight which is overwhelming to the other person.
2007-11-10 09:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋