He's my guy friend and I've known him for 3 years. He is so sexy and fine, but he he's also known for being a big flirt and player. I know I shouldn't be lusting for him but I can't help it because he also likes to touch girls (if you know what I mean) and whenever he touches me, something goes off inside of me, but I always dismiss it. And I always pretend him touching me has no effect whatsoever. I only like him in a physical and sexual way. How do I stop thinking of him like this?
2007-11-09 17:59:02 · 5 answers · asked by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its a matter of self esteem and how highly or lowly you value yourself.
you need to disengage and get away from this person.
you are being influenced by videos, tv and movies. all fiction.
don't put yourself in play to be used poorly by someone who may not be responsible.
there is a part of you that says don't get involved. listen to this part.
good luck and maintain your dignity.
2007-11-09 18:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is practically impossible to look at a woman you find attractive without feeling some lust. However, 98% of the women walking the streets I don't find physically attractive. I just don't act on the 2% I do find alluring.
2016-04-03 05:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl thats gust strait up getto.
i would drop his bitchass in 5 4 3 2 1 its nuttin!!
2007-11-09 18:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda have the same problem but its not as extreme
-i like this guy who says he is a playa and he says he has felt up girls before, but im actually falling for him....it sux.
whenever u think of him, distract ur self with other thoughts or actions. i'll try to do the same with my situation
2007-11-09 18:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to your mind and not the body.It is much better to call it off than to repent at a later date.
2007-11-09 18:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋