The one is wonderful with no commitment , or the obscure one with commitment?
2007-11-09 17:49:28 · 14 answers · asked by yvetta2203 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obscure, definitely.
2007-11-09 17:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dame Edna 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would say the obscure one with commitment. Who would want to live the rest of one's life with a person who doesn't commit? Life is long and lonely with no one to share the ups and downs but it is even worse to have a partner who seems to be invisible as he/she is not always around to share the thick and thin.
2007-11-09 17:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nica 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The one you love would make the better partner, regardless of commitment.....or anything else.
I'm not certain what type of a commitment would make you use it as a basis for having a relationship with this person. Yet I'm sticking by my original point of....
The one you love.
2007-11-09 17:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Carlene M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Neither, if you couldn't count on one for stability. Obscurity surely would no let you in his space and you would really never know his true motives until it is too late. Go on e-Harmony and get your wish list out of what you want. Never settle for less because that is what you will end up getting.
2007-11-09 17:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Vivianna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely obscure.
2007-11-09 17:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Akhtar 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The competition is based on whether u desire commitment from a guy or not.
Simple choice actually... if only u know what u want.
2007-11-09 17:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is all you know about them, neither.
"Wonderful" with no commitment= playmate
"Obscure" with commitment=commitment to whom?
2007-11-09 17:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by darkmuzik 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No commitment
2007-11-09 17:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by mattsmom0205 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The obscure if you just want fun and sex, the wonderful if you want a long term thing. Good luck, (ladies I've known just do both, lol)
2007-11-09 17:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by ronscouch 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
with the commitment
2007-11-09 17:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by justempo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋