2007-11-09 16:27:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never. Even though I've adored all my gf's I never told them I loved them, because I honestly didn't. A few said it to me and all I said was "thank you". I didn't return with a "I love you too" because it wasn't true and I'm not going to say it back if it's not true.
Problem is most people think they HAVE to say it when they don't. What's wrong with just liking where your relationship is? If it's love you are looking for don't waste to much time in relationships just so you have "someone". Or until you do love them. You'll know soon enough if they are the one or not so if you aren't feeling it after 3-6 months you never will. No matter how much you "will" yourself to love them.
If you figure out within a few weeks that they aren't the one, then break up and move on. People spend way to much time in relationships that aren't meant to be, but are to desperate to get out.
Move on until you find true love so when you say "I love you" you feel good when you say it and aren't secretly cringing on the inside when you say it.
xxx
2007-11-09 16:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by jinxster12 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My boyfriend has three children from a previous marriage. I love and adore each and every one of them and frankly, wish I could spend MORE time with them. I love children and I feel blessed that, where I only had my boys before, I also have two little girls in my life as well!! It is a beautiful thing. If you're feeling the way you are, it is not meant to be. Get out of the situation and find someone better suited to you. He and his children are a package deal. You should be accepting of that fact.
2016-05-29 01:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My BUDDY this time took no longer a month. Just days during our conversation, we felt something for each other and after 14days, I asked him how he feels for me. He was not so direct in answering my question, so I asked him with an answer of YES or NO. When he chose YES, then that was the first day we considered ourselves as loving each other. I know everybody would think it's so fast, but it's just the way how you talk to that person and how he answered questions. That's my trick and we are 3yrs in relation already. So far, so good.
2007-11-09 16:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~o0o~ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
2 months
2007-11-09 16:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well from my view i told my girlfriend i loved her around the first few days but i have gotten a question from a friend that told me she says "I Love You" to her boyfriend but she didn't really mean it because she didn't feel it or anything so now she secretly wants him to somehow prove it so i guess for most people you can say it when it feels comfortable and when you actually mean it and you can show it so just tell him you love him when you realize his the right guy for you and you guys have a connection so don't leave him hanging when he tells you he loves you and you mean so much to him but if you don't feel it then it might take time and just kept it simple when you say bye to each other or try to hang up fast or find a excuse to leave fast =D
2007-11-09 16:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i havnt told my current bf that i love him, but my ex whom i dated for 2 years i told after 9 months...but it really depends on the relationship, some people like to take their time others love just to jump in and be agressive...
2007-11-09 16:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jocelin R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I did.
Why lie? It's not like a poker game where there's some strategic right time in the relationship. Well, maybe not while she's on the can.
2007-11-09 16:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wolf Harper 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
7 months and thats after seeing her almost everyday and having a legitimate relationship for 5 ----- it depends on the person though- she said it first- we both waited until we knew it was there
2007-11-09 16:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by flightattendantman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
about a year into it he told me that he loved me and we have been dating for 4 years and 3months....and still strong! You will know when you love your gf/bf....it doesnt matter how long it has been you will know :)
2007-11-09 16:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Second date on the way down to a bus stop, told the beautiful lady I loved her and was going to marry her. Kept my promise too!
2007-11-09 16:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by googie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋