what can i do to help? Any Tips?
2007-11-09 15:19:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
What can i do to help? Any tips? We are engaged to be married
2007-11-09 15:25:17 · update #1
we've tried gels but he still feels like he is going to puke what can we do?
2007-11-09 15:27:45 · update #2
Well When we Have sex he slips out.
2007-11-10 10:07:25 · update #3
what can i do? the condom slips off to . we use a condom because i don't want to get pregant
2007-11-10 10:08:35 · update #4
well, you can try having oral right after you shower. You are fresh. Usually women have odors from sweat and chemical in balances. try FDS spray or try Whipped cream, chocolate syrup, strawberry syrup, or flavored gel from sex shops to diffuse the odor.
2007-11-09 15:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bumblebee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try douching (with a product that has an appealing aroma) prior to cunnilingus, and after sex, and after your period. Use a "flavored and scented" lubricant. Dab perfume (or Vicks Vapo Rub) around his nostrils which will desensitize his sense of smell.
Do the Monistat thing for a few days. It is highly possible you have some sort of yeast infection which frequently results in unpleasant vaginal odors.
If the condition doesn't resolve itself by these steps, then it is a trip to the GYN, because it could be an indication of another problem requiring treatment.
If, after following the other tips and you find there is nothing physically wrong, then my tip to you is to find yourself a new honey who enjoys your natural perfume.
2007-11-09 15:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a check up to make sure you're okay.
Wash yourself before sleeping with him.
When you wipe yourself after using the bathroom, wipe front-to-back, not back-to-front. Use a wash cloth with soap when showering and get your privates good and clean.
Start a diet & fitness plan to get yourself healthier.
Here are some good ideas:
1. Do something that gets your heart rate up a bit like, walking, running, biking, and swimming.
2. Eat Whole, Organic foods like: Broccoli, Cabbage, Organic Brown Rice, Beans, Spinach, Sweet Potato, Apples, and other fruits and vegetables in their Natural State.
3. Avoid eating corn, white bread, white rice, candy, sodas, chips, and anything else that you already know you shouldn’t be eating.
4. Drink clean water as your beverage of choice. Avoid Fruit drinks and fruit juices (unless YOU juice them yourself)
5. Stop smoking, drinking beer & wine, and drinking coffee.
6. Get 8 hours of sleep each night.
7. Hang out with people who want to be healthy.
8. Avoid anything with High Fructose Corn Syrup.
Tone up the muscles:
1. Join a gym and get a trainer.
2. If you’re short on cash, start a light stretching & yoga regimen.
3. Do push-ups, and light dumbbell curls for the upper body.
4. As I said above, walk, run, swim, and or bike
5. Take an aerobics class, a yoga class, or some other fitness class.
6. Join the local YMCA..
7. Buy or borrow this book by Bill Pearl called GETTING STRONGER.
(Here's a link to it: http://www.billpearl.com/product.asp?i=4)
Mental Health:
1. Get a friend to talk to each day about your feelings.
2. If you have some money or insurance, get a counselor to talk to.
3. Learn how to meditate.
4. Join a support group for the issue you’re dealing with.
5. Ask your Higher Self (or God) for guidance.
6. Start keeping a diary or journal about your feelings & thoughts.
7. Write a ‘gratitude’ list every night.
8. Do something that makes you happy each day like: listen to your favorite music, draw, paint, write, or anything creative.
9. Do something for someone else who needs help.
2007-11-09 15:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by Yam King 7 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are some guys who are just not into it. Which is fine. He doesn't have to like it or do it. Get toys and mess around that way. How horrible it must be for him to have to feel like he has to do it.
2007-11-09 15:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are washed and clean, then there should be little smell. If there was an odor, you would know it. More then likely it is an excuse so he does not have to perform oral.
2007-11-09 15:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Try showering right before he does it... might help some. If not, I'd see a doctor, could be an infection.
2007-11-09 15:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by My Thoughts U Can't Decode 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have an infection, see a doctor.
Douching can actually make it worse! See a doc before you do that!
2007-11-09 15:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by camern11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shave it, the hair smells like pee, and your juices, also bathe, and clean that area really well before fore play / oral sex. douche if needed.
2007-11-09 15:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wash That thang
2007-11-09 15:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
take better care of ur pussy, its possible that u may have an infection or STD
2007-11-09 15:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋