She talks To Me and shes very friendly and i think she likes me, nd im not good at making jokes....what can i do to make her laugh nd like...black people help!!! nd were both 17
2007-11-09 12:53:35 · 14 answers · asked by Section 8 Fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO DISRESPECT THOUGH
2007-11-09 12:59:49 · update #1
MY PROBLEM IS IM TOO DAMN DUMB
2007-11-09 13:01:10 · update #2
NO I JUST THINK I MIGHT MAKE MISTAKES ...U..KNOW..LIKE..GOTTA...BE..CAREFULL.....
2007-11-09 13:06:33 · update #3
dude. confidence...... thats it. even if you look nervous doing it, she might think its cute, as long as she knows WHY your trying to be confident.... ya know?
if your nervous, remember its chemicals in your brain beign released.... its supposed to make you feel weird as it releases endorphines and adrenaline. ENJOY IT thats why they are there in your brain!!!
don't worry about the jokes.... just talk.... about yourselfs. about her and the things she does that you like.
and about you and the things you like.
nothing to straight forward though.
Remember, a !little! bit of shyness can go a long way as long as you don't loose sight of the goal.
you definitely don't want to get Pushy.
don't talk to her face to face or chest to breast,
try to sit or stand beside her when your conversation starts to get "personal"
brush up against her and see how she reacts... body language says alot. if she recoils..... wait about 5 minutes and try again...... if she recoils again. STOP. and talk.
confidence compassion balance respect and body language.
I've given you the tools, its up to you if you want to step up to the plate.
Remember you only have 1 life to live.... better live it now buddy or you'll regret it down the road...... and it WILL feel it in the pit of your stomach.
notice how I never said BLACK anywhere in there?
remember that..........
you should do the same.
I've had a black "girlfriend" (more like *ahem* buddy) and we NEVER discussed it. EVER.
2007-11-09 16:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they same way you get any girl to like you. Seriously her being black has nothing to do with that. Ask her out to a movie as friends so its not awkard or ask her to a dance. Ask her to a coffee house. something that doesn't seem more than friends doing but could be a potential relationship
2007-11-09 21:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by bunnygrl43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with him..her being black got nothing 2 do with the relationship talk 2 her like u talk 2 other girls
oh and to that person that said dress gansta and talk ghetto is very stupid!!!!!!!!! yes i said it!!!
not all black ppl r like that u cant just start **** like that,, this is y the world is sooo corrupt bcuz there r ppl like u out there
2007-11-09 20:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree w/ that other guy, why does her being black change anything. Just be your-self and you never know what can happen.
"Love and marriage, love and marriage, fits together like a horse and carriage ..."
2007-11-09 20:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rainn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all who cares what color she is. Maybe you could try one of those pick up lines or ask her if she likes you.
Is there an airport near by? Because my heart is about to take off. :)
2007-11-09 20:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi_and_peas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does being black have to do with it? Treat her like any other girl. Be nice & respectful, give her compliments.
2007-11-09 20:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
black doean't have to do with the problem. just act normal. if she likes you then she'll laugh at ur jokes even if it not funny. if you really like her ask her if she likes you too then ask her out.
2007-11-09 20:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm black talk to me ! Maybe I can help you get the prize!
2007-11-09 21:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by MS. ANN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that the standard rules of flirting apply to all women equally, regardless of skin color...
2007-11-09 20:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by stratostix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Errr....the questions pretty darn racist. O.o We 'black' people, we prefer the term African American, are just like anybody else. That's totally racist, are you trying to say we're different or something? Ouchie.
2007-11-09 20:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Rhapsody 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋