im currently engaged to my bf of 3 years and it has been wonderful. however, now that we are both working, everytime he comes home during weekends, he is always too tired to make love to me. we only see each other once a week and so its so frustrating coz i miss him so much. he has a hard time getting it up coz he tells me his burned out at work. it really frustrates me. i love him so much but its so disappointing coz we cant have the same intense and passionate love making we use to have. any advice? nothing like breaking up with him or finding someone else coz its not an option.
2007-11-09 12:41:05 · 8 answers · asked by brazenlove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wake him up with the nookie. No man can resist morning dew. Are you enticing him? Or are you just telling him you want him. Do a strip dance for him. But some new and exciting lotions and creams. I am in the business, So if you need some recomendations Email me. Jump in the shower with him and lather each other up. It'll be kinda hard for him to resist you when you're all lathered up. Sometimes at the end of my husbands LOOONG day he is so tired. ( he works for a moving company in the florida sun working long hours ) when we lay down for bed we start taking, then horsing around and then the next thing you know...we're doing the damm thing. bring him a "special" lunch one day. I know he is tired, and I know you're frustrated, But FIND the time and the time will come-And a little seduction almost never fails !!! NOW GO GET YOUR MAN!!!! Good Luck
2007-11-09 12:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously! What is making love? I'm 61 and male and have never not been able to enjoy penis penetration and ejaculations but I really don't place that at the top of my aggenda. Every part of your body can love and be loved: physically and or emotionally. Straight out physically and emmotionally is good . Some, many, men and women don't "do" much and that has got absolutely nothing to do with "a bit on the side", that your paranoid friends might tell you. A caring man can bring a lady to orgasim without his magic wand and a lady can bring pleasure to a man without getting an erection. And vice verca. Sex is generally important but some relationships go for years of separation but continued love.
2007-11-09 21:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by mybluedaykari 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think both of you need to look at everything you are doing and decide what is the most important ---- from personal experience work should come 3rd or 4th on the list ---- make time to be with each other and not just an hour or so --- time for a long slow meal --- some time to talk --- some time to really get in the mood and time for good sex ---- best wishes
2007-11-09 20:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dress extremely sexy for him when he comes home, if that doesn't work......then don't be so naive.. no man would pass up some good loving especially if I was to only get it once a week, you know what i mean?! Really consider if he might be getting that somewhere else
2007-11-09 20:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Baddnewz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your time. His work may burn him out but he will cool off in time!! His want for you will cause his strength to return and he will show you then!
2007-11-09 20:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by backyardbum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a little time to relax and while he is relaxing pleasure yourself in front of him with a huge sex toy or something
this always works for me
2007-11-09 20:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by ratfog2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just needs to relax, sounds like he is stressed. get a bottle of wine and relax things will happen when it right
2007-11-09 20:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Madisons' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has another squeeze on the side. That's why he is tired.
2007-11-09 20:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋