okay well my lil sister;s bestfriend has a boyfriend that is 10 years older than her she only 14 about to be 15 and he's 24. i have meet the guy and i have to admit he's really a gentlemen and treats her like gold but i still am not sure if i should trust him??? wat do you think i mean he treats her good and i really like him wat should i do?
2007-11-09 12:28:54 · 18 answers · asked by Eza redadeet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg wow.
tell her parents or something.
2007-11-09 12:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not only is that WAY TOO OLD, but its SICKENING! Why in the world is a 24 year old "man" dating a 14 year old GIRL? What do your parents think about this?? Something is clearly and morally wrong here. He sounds like a pedophile and should be thrown in jail with the rest of those creeps!
2007-11-09 20:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by kyliekissesx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds really dodgy!
No grown man should be attracted to a kid.
I'm frightened that he might be a paedophile. It doesn't matter if he SEEMS nice. You can never be sure. I was molestered from the ages of 6-13 (I'm almost 14) and everyone, including my parents, thought the man was really really nice, and I tried to signal to them that he was terrible but they thought he was like a saint. People like that seem to be really good actors, they're manipulators.
I may be overreacting because of the events that happened in my past, but I don't think you should risk it.
Who knows what your little sister's best friend could get up to with him, you know what men want....
2007-11-09 20:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by *DAMAGED --x 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if a 24 year old thinks that being with a 15 year old is right, then he needs to be brought to the nearest aslyum. of course, it's illegal. and it doesn't matter that he treats her well, it's just not right. sure people that are married could be 10 years apart but at that point it's legal. if they really want this relationship to go places, they should just wait until she's 18.
2007-11-09 20:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by dancinfoolmb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even thought he seems really nice and like a gentleman, he could have differents thoughts in the back of his mind. Now, I'm not saying he's like that but I'm 14 at the moment and having a boyfriend 10 years older right now seems too old. Sure, when your in you 20s, 30s, or older it doesn't seem half as bad but right now I just think it seems too old for her right now.
2007-11-09 20:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
10 years between a 30 and a forty year old is one thing but 14 and 24 eww gross. Back when is was a kid I played in bands I was the youngest person in the band I was 15 and they were all in their middle to upper 20's I used to think they were so cool but when I got into my twenties there was no way I could be friends with a kid. so my point is if a 24 year old is cool to a 14 year old that means he is a huge loser to people of his own age. get it? huge loser.
2007-11-09 20:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Burns 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well as long as they are friends is fine anything else he can go to jail. HE is an adult and she's a monor. ANd love won't keep him out of jail. Just tell your friend to cool it till she's 18 then she can do anything. What will happen when Daddy finds out? SO tell them to be carefull. It doesn't matter if he a gentleman he's still an adult.
2007-11-09 20:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that is too old- it's too old when the girl/guy is under 18 I feel. Once you turn 18, you should be adult enough to make your own decisions. Then I feel age doesn't really matter a whole lot.
2007-11-09 20:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by m930 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's gross and illegal. He has no business with a child of that age. She isn't old enough to vote or make any major decisions according to the law. She has alot of maturing to do and experiences to have as a child. He's interferring with her innocence and should be ashamed...It won't be long before he breaks her heart and moves on to his next victim. A man like that is either really immature or sick in the head to try to fool with a child..................tell her parents or the authorities...don't be an accesseory to his crime......
2007-11-09 20:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by redladee2001 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think he's way to old for her. They have different maturity levels. And would want different things out of the relationship
2007-11-09 20:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a gentlemen then you need to be put in jail right a,long with him hes a child molester
2007-11-09 20:35:36 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋