hes like really freakin hot and i wan to stay a virgin 4 a while longer and im also cheating on him with another guy and he wants to make out with me and i dont know how to telll him no
2007-11-09 12:24:25 · 51 answers · asked by taz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off why the hell you cheating on him! is one guy not gd enough for you? you should choose one or the other...dnt drag both along its ooo =\
but for the question just be honest with him...tell him your not ready and just explain how you feel about it and theres no reason why he should get angry
if hes truely the ONE you are supose to be with then he will understand
2007-11-09 12:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by ☆♥..Kt South☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as you'll see with the other answers, people don't like cheaters. Some of them even have probably done it and are telling you not to do it to help you avoid their mistake. You may get away with all involved getting out unscathed 99 times out of 100, but it is that one time when you watch someone suffer a fate worse than death that makes you regret it the rest of your life.
The best way would be to first figure out what you want. Are you looking for a good time or are you looking for a potential lasting relationship. If your just looking for a good time, then don't worry about wasting your time with virginity, unless your 10, your playing around in the future will make it not matter anyways. If you want a real relationship, then stop playing with two people. As I said, Emotional wounds don't leave neat looking scars like fleshy ones do.
Once you've figured which of the two you want to see what you can see with, tell them to be paitent. You don't want to go all the way yet, enter another reason you want to keep your virginity here. If he gets ruthlessly forceful or too terribly upset, then tell him he can either be patient or he can go and play with all of the other fish in the see.
2007-11-09 12:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by goblinslayer2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly If he loves you he wont get mad. If he gets mad tell him to go have a ****....sex aint the be all and end all of everything. Dont let him push you into anything you dont wanna do.
Secondly you cant think much of him if you are already cheating on him. Either break it off with the b/f or the other guy. Cos he will find out - they always do then everyone gets hurt - you included.
2007-11-09 12:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by mel_worton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi just tell him if he gets mad leave him. If you want to see someone else he isnt the one for you anyway. Stay a virgin a while longer you should not have sex because you are forced to .He doesnt care for you if he tries to make you.
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2007-11-09 12:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly55freedom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? You'd let a boy pressure you into sex before you want to do it? Afraid you'll lose such a jerk? If he gets mad and leaves, so what? BOYS are for entertainment. You want to marry a MAN. He's a BOY.
AND you're letting some other BOY mess with you because you don't know how to tell him NO?
You need some serious counseling on self-respect. Get it fast before you catch a disease or an unwanted baby.
2007-11-09 12:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Thinking Clearly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating!!! Don't let any man force you into doing something you're not ready for. If they can't take "no" for an answer, then move on. Don't put yourself in a compromising situation that could end up in the guy wanting sex. Don't send mixed signals.
2007-11-09 12:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that, that u wanna stay a virgin 4 a while. but know thats not really kind of u, u should brake up with the guy that ur not truly in love, dont be a cheater.
2007-11-09 12:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by No One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh! Maybe you should find a girl friend for the next 35 years. Grow up before you end up with someone with a challenged temper who thinks a cheating girl friend deserves not to hurt anybody any more. grow up before it's to late
2007-11-09 17:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 00:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you call him your boyfriend if you have someone else too? I would just say NO. It seems that you just want to be out in the dating world anyway so I would say NO sex to both of them and let the guy you call boyfriend know you are just out there dating. Please don't let him get to serious with you when you know you are dating others. No one deserve to get slapped in the face like that.
2007-11-09 22:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋