Theres this guy that i like hes in one of my classes in college and he's always staring at me you know how u can feel someone staring at you that how it is with him. he would even walk past my next class all the time just to make eye contact with me but never talk to me its sooo cute and im starting to get a huge crush on him. Theres one thing though im a black girl and hes white ive never been the one to care at all. WHY WONT HE COME TALK TO ME!!! lol he can talk to any other girl no problem. but me.....he wont.
2007-11-09 12:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok and alot of you said that he did like me but was intimidated or shy. You told me to talk to him. well i tried to add him as a friend on myspace HE DIDNT EVEN ADD ME!!! lol im really confused why would a guy give you every hint that he likes you but shoots u down??? like i said before there is a race factor. some of his friends ive known since 1st grade. but i know one of his friends is ignorant sometimes.
just dont understand. i think hes worried about the race thing. the way he looked at me i thought he liked me. I REALLY THINK HE LIKES AND I LIKE HIM TOO!!!! But i dont know what to do!!!
2007-11-09 12:14:17 · update #1
how does any of that have to do with yours and his race? guys are just weird like this, it's not unheard of. guys put of the act of having a harder shell by acting confident by flirting without actually talking to the girl, but when it comes to talking to girls they maybe have a crush on they have this whole other side which is softer, and shows how shy they really are.
2007-11-09 12:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly because he's never been with a black girl and doesn't know how to approach you. Do what most Strong black go getters do. Approach him first. Tell him.."I see you eyeing me, is there a reason". This way you can get an answer out of him. Maybe one you don't like. But from there you'll kno how to handle the situation
2007-11-09 20:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by suga...honey honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not on Myspace very often. Check your pending requests to see if he's still there. If he's not on that list, then he denied it. Try talking to him, rather than add him on Myspace. Stop him one day and talk to him. If he avoids you, that's a good indication that he's not interested.
2007-11-09 20:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, seriously. How old are you? Walk up to him and introduce yourself. If he's interested, he'll be happy to have an opportunity to talk to you. If he's not, you'll pretty much know.
2007-11-09 20:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything and the rest should come naturaly it may be hard to do this but what happens next is going to happen and theres not much you can do about that goodluck
2007-11-09 20:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by daz r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋