My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 years ago for about a month. In the process he met a girl online and met up with her. They supposedly became friends. He would explain to her how much he loved me etc.etc. etc. But once we got back together, I didn't feel like there was any need for her. He's lied to me about her. Had a picture he printed off the internet of her in the car. When I told him I didn't want him talking to her, he basically told me he was going to continue to regardless. He claims he lies to me about her because I get some offended at the truth. Do I have to accept this *****??
2007-11-09 12:03:33 · 11 answers · asked by suga...honey honey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been together 5 years and I'm pregnant with his child and she lives in another city(orlando), we live in miami
2007-11-09 12:07:54 · update #1
I even called and asked her if she had something going on with him and she completly denied it. She denied even talking to him for a year or so, which was a lie. She had spoken to him probaly a month before I called
2007-11-09 12:25:26 · update #2
He might be telling the truth, he might not! In the end it's all about trust.
If it was me I couldn't deal. Call me immature but if there is nothing to hide why the lying?
If he loves you like he says he does he would understand.. try to get him to stand at least for a second in your shoes...
Asking him to give up the friendship is a tad drastic if it is indeed a friendship , get him to prove that to you, otherwise,,, he is just not worth it.
I know it would hurt to let him go, but do you deserve to be played???
2007-11-09 12:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by ~Becks~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You pushed him to lie to you because you do not understand why he still needs a friend to talk to. Do you think he would be with you if he had romantic feelings for her?
Do you think a guy would understand what and why you act like you do?
I personally think you should invite her to your house and sit and talk to her.
She may be just a friend or he may be telling her things that are not all together true. Don`t tell him, just invite her.
That way you can find out for yourself what
is going on.
2007-11-09 20:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have three choices in the matter:
1. Behave like a mature adult and accept he has friends that are female.
2. Continue being a controlling, jealous, and insecure b*tch.
3. Dump him because you're too immature to handle him having friends that aren't male.
If you can't trust him to have friends, you shouldn't be in this relationship. You're going to be a mom soon, try acting like an adult.
2007-11-09 20:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him how he would feel if u bacam friendly with a lad and had his picture in ur purse? i would say to him u wanna be there when they talk online but he is not allowed to tell her your there, that way she wont know your there and u can c how she speaks with him, and tell im being second best to a girl he dont know is wrong and sweetie u can get better
2007-11-09 20:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by clogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to accept this. He should be respecting your feelings. Don't just go out and tell him this but if it continues it's no worth being in a relationship with him
2007-11-09 20:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you do. If you tell him he cannot talk to her, he will accuse you of being jealous and will continue to talk to her and there is a chance that he won't want anything to do with you.
2007-11-09 20:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
accept her
AS LONG AS theres
NOTHING going on
between them
of course
shes just a friend
2007-11-09 20:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by MIMO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no. tell him its either his and your relationship or his female friend. I hope he would obviously choose you, or else something else is going down with the female friend. Guys are weird, i tell you.
2007-11-09 20:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by msg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well no you dont have to accept it...he has feelings for her and he cant have feelings for both......make him choose and if he choooses her then it wasnt meant to be and you will find another better...............throw him to the gutter and get cha another
2007-11-09 20:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by firewoman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
breakup with him hes cheating on u
2007-11-09 20:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋