I feel lonely and I am kind of an impatient person when it comes to men. My parents and grandparents say I should wait. I graduate in a year in a half probably. Is it better to wait to have a boyfriend or to get one now?
2007-11-09 11:48:10 · 19 answers · asked by wonderingchica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Focus on your school!
Establish a firm foundation~
& a Realistic Marketable Job Skill!
After you are 25 yrs. old~
you get to pick & choose
who is "worthy" of your company!
Our brains are NOT fully developed
UNTIL we are well over 25! WE
will have much better decision making
capabilities after this time!
If you do meet a nice friend?
Date! But do NOT permit yourself
to loose FOCUS on your studies!
Have FUN!
Good Luck!
2007-11-09 11:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by LedHead 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be sure you wait till after college. Get your life set up the variety you like it, plus while your older you will understand extra approximately what you like out of life and how plenty man or woman you opt to be with. it incredibly is a loopy game of probability we take getting in contact whilst we are nevertheless youthful and clueless, do no longer fall for it, it incredibly is a capture! you're able to make your own life, or you threat in no way being incredibly satisfied or ending up no longer with the flexibility to help your self with out guy. Your nevertheless so youthful, you have a protracted thank you to bypass, so making plans is one element, yet surely sticking to the plan... good success, and your plenty tremendously, you ought to not could many boyfriends at 14, your nevertheless so very youthful. do no longer rigidity your self approximately it, savour what you may in life, whilst your nevertheless youthful and don't probable could concern approximately plenty.
2016-11-10 23:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't its best to wait because they don't want you to become distracted with this boy and not focus on school. you can't die over somthing you never had. a relationship is very demanding and you need to be fully ready to deal and I don't think that juggling the two is a good combo so I suggest you wait.
2007-11-09 11:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Danette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait-my friend quit college with only a couple months to go because of a man-never did go back and get that degree-he left her when she was 45 for another woman-now she cleans up poop in nursing home-it isn't that much longer -doesn't mean you can't socialize
2007-11-09 11:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by suan b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, have fun with boys and get crazy but don't do what I have done, get yourself straightened out first. There are plenty of guys to meet and keep you company but don't get wrapped up in feelings.
2007-11-09 11:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by moonshine057 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't set any standard as to when, but I would also be open. I mean, if you meet someone you like, you don't want them to slip away, do you? Then years later, you'd be wishing you'd have done diffferently. That's how I try to live, what will I regret later? Too bad...I already regret things...lol
2007-11-09 11:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can say in your mind that you want to wait but don't set it in stone. If true love comes your way, don't let it pass you by
2007-11-09 11:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u left collage and graduated u may not find the perfect man for ages to come
try with a few men if you like them then its upto you if you want to carry the relationship further
2007-11-09 11:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Dave D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you impatient? Who really cares about it right now. You do have friends, don't you?
2007-11-09 11:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. College is a great time. Enjoy.
2007-11-09 11:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋