Ok, me and this girl are like really good friends . We promised each other that we will always be there for each other . I'm close with her parents & brother..and I surprise her by buying her stuff, and occasionally, I act as her boyfriend to tell dudes that bother her to back off.
But anyway, my best friend girlfriend introduced me to her and in the beginning we kissed each other lightly once, nothing big. But we haven't really tried getting close to each other like that now .. I guess we are both scared if we get into a relationship it would ruin our already close friendship.
but we do FLIRT with each other ALOT .. like we would play with each other hands and we would just have playful staring contests, and when i pick her up she wraps her legs around me..
I like her..but i'm more concerned with being her friend right now, because she did just get out of a year and a half relationship..and i guess all she needs right now is a friend.
So how do u think she feels about me ?
2007-11-09 11:31:02 · 22 answers · asked by theGREATEST. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we also call each other "pet names" time from time .. like she'll call me pooks, and i'll call her pookiepie . haha, embarressing i know .
we also call each other "boo". Now .. when we talk to each other online however, there isn't really much of a spark .. it's kinda like the same thing everyday .. "how was your day .. mine was good" and so on and so forth .. nothing special .
So, i ask again .. what do you think she feels about me ?
and .. when we talk online, what can i talk to her about .. the conversation gets boring really quick .. but when we see each other in person, we always have fun .. so girls, what do you like for guys to talk about in conversations online ?
like i want to make things more interesting .. so when we talk online, she remembers it and smiles about it behind the computer screen ..
Thank you guys ! I really appreciate your help ..
name is Andre by the way .
2007-11-09 11:31:29 · update #1
Andre, I think she likes you. I mean, you are there for her and you protect her and are her friend. You really care about her and you've KISSED before.AND you guys flirt ALL THE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean, I really wish I had someone like you for there me. I would kill to have someone like you there for me. If I were her, you would be the ultimate boyfriend material. If I were your friend in real life, you would be the ultimate boyfriend material. Trust me, you are everything a girl could want in a guy. You are so sweet, caring, protective, and sensitive to a girl's feelings. That's good.
And as for what you should talk about online, talking about regular stuff is perfectly fine. That's what I talk about with my friends. Granted, I don't have any guy friends to really talk to online, but that's beside the point. If you want to get a little more romantic without going too fast call her cutie or sweetie or something like that. Ask her if she wants to go get some ice cream or something.Tell her you think she's beautiful. Something casual like that, something you might do anyway. Let the conversation flow naturally, don't do anything awkward. You could also play the Question Game. It's where you can ask each other any question and have to be completely honest about it. It's easier online because you're not looking at the other person and you can't see their reaction. You could ask her how she feels about you. In real life, just smile at her and try to hold her hand. If she doesn't want to, it's okay. Try to get her to laugh. Girls love guys who can make them laugh.
You are just about the sweetest, most caring, most protective guy I've ever known. Have confidence in yourself and don't doubt. She's had time to get over her bf, and if she rejects you(which I doubt she will) just be her friend again. She'll be cool with that.
I sincerely hope everything works out the way you want it to. Good luck! God bless you.
2007-11-09 11:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by MK4JCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar case to this. Ok first of all, you are in pretty well if you guys flirt a lot and stuff. It wouldn't hurt to try to hold her hand or something. If she freaks out then oh well, don't do it. Most likely she won't freak out. This will help her realize that maybe you guys are more than friends.
For the online conversation, play the question game. If you don't know what it is, what you do is take turns asking each other a question. Anything in the world, and the person has to be 100% honest. Girls love that kind of stuff, especially when it is online because it is easier to answer. Later in the game you can ask questions like "Are you attracted to me?" or "Do you ever think about considering me more than a bestfriend" you can find out everything from the question game.
Just keep showing her you are interested and make sure you touch her as much as possible, that will indicate more than friendship for her :-)
Good luck
2007-11-09 19:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Smirnoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Andre, she may just need a friend right now. It's really hard when you are good friends with a person of the different sex and you like them.
If you guys are honest with each other and you don't hide secrets from each other, then getting in a relationship shouldn't hurt, because the trust and honesty is already there.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-11-09 19:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Andre,
i think you might have a future Mrs. Andre on you r hands.... I'm kidding!! But you two are so cute! you make me feel so lonely, i'm having guy troubles... But anyways, i believe you two think the same way about each other. I mean come on man! you do all these things together, i would've thought you two were dating.. i think you both are afraid to go out, because you both think that each other just wants to stay "friends" its a LIE! ask her out now! Oh, and also when you are online talk about how much you miss her, and how much you want to see her.
2007-11-09 19:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by *Miss. Rachel is a Sophmore!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AAWW! I really wish I had a friend like you! You two sound really into eachother. I say, since she just got out of a 1 and a half year relationship, I would wait a little while. Then, I would say go for it! If you two act like this ALL the time, then I say it would be fine! And about the online situation, I would say just talk to her about anything thats on your mind! Girls love it when guys express their thoughts and feelings. Well, all the girls I know do anyway! So, like I said, JUST GO FOR IT!
2007-11-09 19:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...i think Andre sounds like a very nice person. I think that you should do what you think is best. If you are afraid and yet you really want to get closer to in a relationship, i would talk to her. i know it is going to be hard, but you need to talk if it is really something that you want to do. And if you do talk to her make sure you talk to her in person, not online. I understand your problem when you talk to her online. Me, being a girl to, i know how hard it is to talk to someone that you like online. It is hard to know if the other person is smiling or frowning at what you said. I would try talking about things that intrest her when talking online. Like what is her fav. music or band. Maybe if that goes well, you could take her out to a concert like a date. But if she doesn't like the idea of a date, tell her it is just something to do as friends. I really suggest that you two sit down and talk about you twos relationship. I hope this helps you. Good luck!
2007-11-09 19:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Swazowski2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE REALLY GOOD FREINDS WITH HER, HUN, JUST ASK HER, IF SHE HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU IN THAT SPECIAL WAY, SHE MAY DENY IT BUT IT WILL BE AN OBVIOUS DENIAL, LIKE BLUSHING AND BEING EMBARRASSED, TRYING TO CHANGE THE SUBJECT. MY PERSONAL OPINION SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU AS YOU DO FOR HER, THE PET NAMES AND EVERYTHING YOU HAVE DESCRIBED. THINK ABOUT WHAT IS IMPORTANT THOUGH, YOU SAID THAT SHE JUST GOT OUT OF A FAIRLY LONG RELATIONSHIP, SHE MAY NEED A FRIEND MORE RIGHT NOW THAN ANYTHING, HANG IN THERE AND LET THINGS HAPPEN WHEN THEY HAPPEN, YOU CAN PUSH FOR IT THOUGH, AND OPEN THE DOOR TO LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BUT THAT YOU RESPECT HER BOUNDRIES AND WILL TAKE IT AS FAST OR AS SLOW AS SHE LIKES.
2007-11-09 19:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by csloan82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about online conversations being boring. A lot is lost via emails and texts. Sounds like she digs you. Just be there for her. Sounds like she needs the friend first. If something develops you'll know it.
2007-11-09 19:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by kiki_love11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE SHE REALLY LIKES YOU, SO WHY DON'T YOU TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE ALREADY FRIENDS SO JUST TELL HER THE TRUTH, TELL HER YOU VALUE THE FRIENDSHIP AND DON'T WANT TO LOSE IT AND WANT TO SEE IF IT CAN BE LOVE, WHY NOT, NOTHING CAN GO WRONG IF YOU TELL HER THE TRUTH, TAKE IT SLOW IT MAY BE THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENS TO THE TWO OF YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2007-11-09 19:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by gernan20876 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i know this isnt worth 10 points...LOL
But i believe that either she feels the same way you do
Or you guys are really close
I know with my best guy friend
We started off just like you guys
And now i believe he could be the one
2007-11-09 19:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by angelablsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋