since my mom hates me for doing stupid bad stuff thats not really that bad.. and since im so stupidly fat for eating halloween candy. im just gonna never eat again, and die and go to hell to make my mother happy..
you would prbably undertstand this better if u read my other question : http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhxnUBYZ0Q34hjjVCCpmjb_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071109145600AAT3w9M
how long does it take to die with out food or water? i can't wait much longer
2007-11-09 11:15:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Good idea, but instead of doing it alone in your room, go out in front of a public building and say your doing it for something you beleive in. Nobody has to know your just a selfish brat. Or you can go to any number of third world countries ,and fit right in.
2007-11-09 11:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I'm a parent of 4 kids and it's tough! You want them to be so much better than you were! NEVER in a million years would I tell my child that I wanted them dead, NEVER! I would never say "I hate you". My little girl who is 9 has been sneaking into her candy and I just told her that she needed to ask and that's she's allowed only so much a day, mostly because she has a cavity right now and she knows that and has been sneaking into it...so I threw it away, but I did so in a calm manner. Anyway, You need to understand that no child is ever a mistake! You are a thinking, breathing individual. By showing her your frustration and giving into her controlling ways, you are hurting yourself and giving her the satisfaction. DO NOT hurt yourself in any way shape or form! Try in every possible way to be your best self and show her that she will not influence you having a happy life and think to yourself when you are able to be away from her that she doesn't need to be part of your life. Also, she sounds emotionally abusive and I would seek help from school counselors or any other adults you can confide in. Get the help you need to combat your mom. Remember, God doesn't make mistakes in sending children here....learn from this, learn that you will never act this way toward anyone and start thinking about your positive abilities and talents...and pray. Hang in there!
2007-11-09 11:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jennylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on Anorexia is not the way to go... You should really call the police and get this whole thing sorted out! Maybe they will send your mom to a psychiatric ward or something... And who can resist halloween candy!? I know you wanna eat you don't wanna die, don't let something so stupid bring you down!
2007-11-09 11:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, that is not the right way to go. i actually read something once that said not eating at all makes you get bigger because you're not taking in all the carbs that you used to. if you think you're fat then eat healthy and exercise. and for your mom, try to forget her. if she asks you to do something, do it. then if she gives you a hard time, instead of fighting back, just completely ignore the comment. i'm not saying that you should keep everything bottled up inside so vent to your friends, do yoga or something that helps you relieve stress. hurting yourself isn't the answer to your problems. there are so many healthy ways to get through it. if nothing helps then try talking to a counselor about it. i hope this helps! ♥
2007-11-09 11:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by in la-la-land 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please don't do that. life can be so beautiful, you're just going through an extreamly ugly time now. It will eventually get better.
But I guess to answer your question, you would definatly die of thirst first, but it is a very long and painful death. Please please never consider killing yourself. Life offers the most wonderful experiences, and you can't let one person just destroy it all. I almost did once too many years ago, but now I'm probably the happiest I have ever been. Try painting, it's a good way to vent your frustrations.
2007-11-09 11:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Give Peace A Chance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am serious about this...I went through this with my mom years ago...your mom is having a break down..she needs help big time my mom ended up in a mental hospital..can you talk to someone aunt..grand mother? Don't take her problem out on yourself....get her help even if you have to go to a hospital and talk to someone about her...This is not your fault you are making yourself sick and depressed over what this very sick women is saying...........She is crying out for help..............get some help for her and it will help you
2007-11-09 12:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by wilma s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey... please email me:
cam255elle@yahoo.com
I feel that I can relate with you in so many ways. I was anorexic about 2 months ago and the main reason I became anorexic was because of my mom... me and my mom never had the mom-daughter relationships people always seen on tv.. instead, i end up with a mom who i think DEEP DOWN does care, but instead yells at me and calls me names such as crazy anorexic *****..and she has also told me to die on several occasions...............anyway, if you want to talk, please email me.......maybe..if you do decide to become anorexic, we can help eachother? write to me if you want. i'm 16 years old by the way.. and 5'1", currently 100 pounds.. i was 88, but my mom made me gain around 10 pounds and is forcing me to gain another 10...so that i'm 110 and fat...................please don't kill yourself though. in the long run, killing yourself is doing the most damage to YOURSELF although it may make your mom feel like ****.... but not living isn't worth it.....
so please, email me and maybe we can chat a bit?
2007-11-10 03:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by myra cambelll 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a form of suicide. Just wait till your older, you won't have to live or deal with your mother. She probably loves you deep down inside.
2007-11-09 11:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Rainn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
anorexics don't want to die- they just think they are fat, and don;t want to eat. you need some serious psychological help- get some!
2007-11-09 11:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could take weeks but everyone you know would be sad. You are beautiful and who cares what other people think or say
2007-11-09 11:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋