2007-11-09 11:06:34 · 4 answers · asked by carolv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another boyfriend.
2007-11-09 11:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Fred F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I need some advice on this topic too! My bf's so selfish most of the time, he not only piles so much stress on me, but he also hurts me emotionally. We don't seem to connect as much anymore. The only thing he thinks about is what he wants. When I try to talk to him and fix things he gets mad or sad and ignores the facts...like right now.
If you haven't tried talking to him you should. Both persons' in a relationship should listen to one another and get feedbacks from eachother. Leaving him sounds easy, but if you're really into him and want things to work out then it will be hard as hell! It's true, we can't really change a person but if that person is committed to change then he/she will. Be the upper hand and be strong. Selfishness is one of the hardest characteristics to change in someone.
I talk to my bf or at least try and when it does get through his head he changes for a while...then he's back @_@.
Truth is I'm in the same situation so I can't really lend you any advice...stubbornly selfish ppl can't change. Unless there is some miracle.
But do try talking to him and share how you feel about his selfishness...hopefully it makes him think for a bit. :]
Best of luck to you!
2007-11-09 19:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, reverse psychology...and smother
2007-11-09 19:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by iROYAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him you will never change him and it will only get worse
2007-11-09 19:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋