What Women Want !?

Question

Ok, well my last post was about me like.. well.. never mind :P read it!
Anyway, guys as well as girls can answer this x

What do women *girls* want in a guy, is body better than looks? Or is Personality better than style?

Let me know x

p.s Sorry for spelling ect, Im just posting, and not vettin x

IM ALSO On da pull :P Soooooooo Help me :(

p.p.s Im 14 Nearly 15 x

Answer 1

It all depends on the girl - and the biggest factor is what age group she belongs to... and what she is looking for in a "relationship" (long term, a quick fling, or whatever)...

Personality is generally the most important thing - though the "hotness" factor CAN over-ride this. Depening on the girl, she might want a "bad boy" - or a "gentleman". How outgoing (or not) can also come into play.

There also tends to be a focus on a particular feature of the guy - be it eyes, smile, ripped abs, etc.

A sense of humour generally helps, as does at least a certain amount of intelligence - and some athletic skill can be nice too.


In other words - there is NO definition of the "perfect" guy...

ALL women (and men as well) have THEIR personal definition of what they are looking for - and if you've got what they are looking for, they will seek YOU out ;););)

Answer 2

This depends on a lot of things actually and it does change when women get older.

For the most part, I think someone's looks tend to be the main draw for what attracts a young girl/youngish woman to a guy, followed by their personality, body and style. When we are young this is what we tend to go after primarily. In other words, we tend to focus on the more superficial aspects of someone - like all the stuff I mentioned before. I did, so I am no different than anyone else. But as we age and gain life experience with other relationships and we mature, etc., we want more substance in a person beyond their looks, personality, body or style, like intelligence, good conversational skills, social skills, a caring nature, a desire to achieve things in life - be it achieving higher professional degrees after they get their college degree, a desire for a good job in their chosen career.

At my age now, looks are not everything. While it is always nice to be with someone that is hot, handsome or cute, if that person is dumber than a box of rocks, arrogant, a snob, and/or full of themselves, has no desire to achieve anything in life but for attention, etc,, and is "all about themselves", they actually are a turn off. I don't care if they are God's gift to the Universe, but if they don't have a caring bone in their bodies, a brain in their head, cannot converse well, etc., I won't be attracted to them. Why? Because I learned in life that the substance of a person is far more interesting and attractive than how handsome or cute someone is.

You'll see.

Answer 3

I want a guy who is kind, funny, with a good heart and a loving personality, someone I can depend on whos there for me without me even having to ask. Looks are just meaningless if your with someone who loves htmeslef more than you, is shallow or violent. A beautiful personality over rules a beautiful face.

Answer 4

Well a nice body is definitly a plus, but hes gotta be nice or I'll never go for him. Style doesn't matter as much. As long as he isn't wearing horribly stained clothes with dirty and crap all over them. You seem like a nice guy...e-mail me ([e-mail]), Im not interseted in a relationship but if you ever need a friend to talk to I'll talk to you. Im only 13.

Answer 5

I don't think body is better than looks and personality trumps all. I cannot speak for all women because each of us is different but I like men who are attentive, considerate, respectful, mature, honest, responsible, romantic, and sensitive. They must also have goals, a JOB, and good communication skills.

Answer 6

i think of countless the hot problems women face is that now they are only as equivalent, numerous the time, incomes the enjoyed ones money. yet nevertheless are estimated to get dinner and look after the youngsters, sparkling the domicile. adult adult males are additionally i spotted are much less probably to artwork and anticipate the spouse to guard them. adult adult males are afraid to open the door for us, i assume the two from worry that we are going to yell at them that we are able to do it ourselves, they do no longer provide effective compliments with the aid of worry that we are going to cost them with sexual harassment. we are fortunate to locate a guy that cares sufficient to p.c. to be at domicile, and is a sprint outdated shaped approximately taking care persons yet nevertheless facilitates us to be an equivalent. I additionally think of that girls are compelled to look a undeniable way, because of the fact of fake advertising that Hollywood has shown us with the appropriate women. while in actuality it is an phantasm that devoid of 50 human beings engaged on her for 5 hours won't in any respect gain.

Answer 7

Well it changes as i change for me. See right now im looking for a mental or physiological connection (horrible experiences when just lookin for physically appealing guys!) So yeah looks are like bonus points but the chemistry is what i look for first.

Answer 8

Definitly personality over looks. I'm after a guy in college who I don't find remotely good looking, but he's the funniest guy ever. Just be yourself and don't worry about it.

Answer 9

I prefer personality, it's what makes someone beautiful regardless if you have a nice body or not. If you have a nice body and the looks, it's obviously a plus, plus!!!

Answer 10

at that age its totally about looks and style. when you are older, personality is usually most important.