So here's my situation. I broke up with the love of my life by mistake and now Im suffering for it. I left this girl about 3 weeks ago and after a 2 year stint. So she meet a new guy that is great with her kids and her (well thats what she's tellin me). But I know that she still loves me because we just made love the other night while he was away. The thing is with this guy, he's in the Navy and is due to leave next month and he wants her to go with him but she can't because of her kids dad is where she is but the guy kids that she is seeing are in Texas. So she is confused about me and him. So I decided to give her the space with this guy to see if it goes anywhere. I don't want her to think that I'm throwing in the towel because I want her back dearly but a lot has happened and things are just diffrent now. I need advice on how to give her the space with this guy but also to continue to let her know that I love her dearly.
2007-11-09 10:31:51 · 3 answers · asked by mackmall8218 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So now she calls me on Saturday to tell me that she's in love with this guy and she wants me to move on. I can tell in her voice that she isn't sure about what she's doing because she said that the decison that she has made may leave her all alone but thats a chance she's willing to take for this guy. I don understand what this man is telling her because like I said before, he's leaving next month to go and be with his kids in Texas. So I find myself wondering if he's honest with her by telling her that he loves her or just maybe he has no idea what he's getting hiself into. I want to be with her and make a life with this woman but I do think to much has happened and its over now. So I just need help in getting pass this woman. It doesn't help that we work together and I see her all the time and evertime I see her these feeling come up. I don't know if Im holding on to a pipe dream or what. PLS HELP!!!
2007-11-12 03:36:32 · update #1
OK tell her how you feel and if she tells you she wants space after that then give her space but along the way you might meet someone let her know that because i was in a very very similar situation i just didnt sleep with another guy so ..let her know and if its true love than she will be back with you believe me..goodluck TALK TO HER THOUGH !!!!!
2007-11-09 10:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by meli50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think very carefully. She cheated on her new man with you. That isn't necessarily love...that is sex. And she hooked up with someone after being with you for 2 years, in less that three weeks....that is someone who has a lot of problems. You need to sort things out yourself. Something tells me she isn't as into you as you think she may be.
2007-11-09 18:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude fight for what you want unless she does not want you. I would jump in and tell her how you feel. If she does not react to it move on because obviously she either does not want you or does not respect you. I know it is crappy but that is life and you deserve to know what your relationship is and except nothing less than what is acceptable to yourself or you will just be miserable like you are now.
2007-11-09 18:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Brad H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋