How much do physical looks in a partner matter to you?

Question

Do you want looks or brains?

Answer 1

looks matter when u first meet someone to me, cos i wudnt be that interested in somebody who is reli ugly, but if u got to no them and they had a reli nice personality then it wudnt matter to me if they dint make tht much of an effort to look gd. x

Answer 2

I don't care if other people find my partner attractive but I have to be physically attracted to him. Everyone finds different things attractive - the guys I like would be totally not some other woman's taste. I do insist that he be somewhat intelligent because I have a college degree and work in the legal field - I just can't date someone I can't carry on an intelligent conversation with.

Answer 3

Can I say this with out acting like a dreamer, both? I know they exist (my crush has both. lol). A good lookin' hotty, with out a brain is no fun, trust me, I've hung (not dated) with the barbies. You'll find more beauty in an intellectual than and "plastic girl". I love when u have a girl that will get ur jokes, and has a few of her own up her sleeve. Beauty, the most visible, and yet most transparent element that a woman can posses. (I know it sounds like it contradicts it's self, but think about it. it 'll make sense.).

Answer 4

My ex boyfriend and I met on a blind date, we had met over the Internet and talked for a while, but never met in person. When I saw him for the first time, I thought OMG what have I gotten myself into, but it turns out looks aren't everything. We clicked because he loved to play chess as much as I did and he beat the pants off me, literally.

Beauty is only skin deep, but brains are forever.

Good Luck. "Live Life to the Fullest and Enjoy Every Minute of It".....

Answer 5

I'm more about the brain....but gotta have a bit of attraction to the person as well...most hot guyz r jerks...so I stopped going after looks at much...but i think a person's personality brings out d beauty in them and makes them good looking...a person could be hott but if they r jerks there looks disappear...a person has to have a good character..so u can be able to talk to the person and for them to treat u good.

Answer 6

For me, FIRST, come the personality. He gotta be nice to me first. SECOND, is the brain. We both have to succesful in life to have a good life with each other. THIRD, the looks. Doesn't really matter to me, I mean, everyone have different opinions on what they like. =)

Answer 7

Generally for me its personality, not even brains, but then i'm single and maybe I need to change that attitude! As long as looks are'nt car-crashy, then how much they make me laugh and how we connect is more important. Only wish I received the same attitude back!

Answer 8

i could say that looks rely as a familiar indication of well-being, and self admire. a individual properly groomed, and in high-quality condition could be a lot greater appealing than a familiar sweat hog. merely understand that looks, even on the main well-liked suit fashions, will fade with adequate time. Whats interior a individual, character, outlook on existence, and so on. will become a lot greater important.

Answer 9

I want both, but if I had to choose one, looks comes before brains.

Answer 10

Well, its always nice when they are easy on the eyes but it doesnt really matter what they look like as long as they had a nice personality and i loved them (and they loved me too!)
:)