2007-11-09 05:52:18 · 44 answers · asked by roses 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i have to marinate on this for a while by the way im 25 believe it or not just wanted to know what others thought im very open minded
2007-11-09 09:06:01 · update #1
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having sex before marriage if this is what you would like to do. Only be safe about it.
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2007-11-09 05:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. After marriage it is too late to know if the two of you are sexually compatible. Many marital issues revolve around sex. What if you want it 3 times a week and he wants it only once a month. Sure it sounds like that'll be easy for now but that's because you have had sex yet. Look, sex is just as important in a marriage as communication, trust, and all the other things a couple need to be compatible on.
2007-11-09 06:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to have sex before getting married, that is your choice. You should not have to ask strangers about their opinion because it is not their life to live. I chose not to wait and I still don't regret it. I used to want to wait, but I didn't just because I knew I was in love with the guy I did it with. It is purely a personal choice and do not feel bad if people tell you not to. It really is your choice and only yours. When I chose not to wait, I felt bad at first, but I got over it because I knew it didn't really matter. And we did break up many MANY months later, but now are back togther and still plan on getting married. Only you know what's right and best for you.
2007-11-09 05:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by *~*BUNNY*~* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you want to have sex with someone who is special to you now? Or you just generally want to do it before you are married?
I don't think it is a bad thing to have sex prior to marriage. But I think it is a bad thing to have sex that you will regret later. If it isn't someone who you would risk losing your virginity to, then no; if you did it today, and he broke up with you tomorrow, would sex still have been the right decision?
The point is, anyone who is worthy enough to lose your virginity to would also be caring and loving enough to wait until you were ready...even if that meant marriage.
2007-11-09 05:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is a big deal. Very few people realize that it is more than a physical act. Yes, it feels very good, and I enjoy it a lot. I did not wait until marriage but I did wait until I felt like I could handle it emotionally. My friends made fun of me and claimed I was frigid. It was had but I am soooo happy I waited.
Best of luck!
2007-11-09 05:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by halestrm 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you should wait. Why do you want to have sex before marriage? Is there any real good reason?
Are you doing it to keep a guy? Are you doing it so you aren't embarrassed that you haven't? Are you doing it because you think you have to? Are you doing it to test out whether this guy is the right guy?
None of those are good reasons to risk an unwanted pregnancy, disease, heartbreak when the relationship ends, etc.
2007-11-09 06:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by sparki777 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should wait until you get married..not only to respect your self but also God. You need to be sure that that guy is the one you really want to give it to. And if your going to marry someone its best that you give that guy everything because he's the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. A plus is that some guys feel special when they know you waited and hes the first guy to ever touch you..so therefore i think you should wait.
2007-11-09 06:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by soccerchic90 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Waiting for marriage is a very serious thing! I was going to do the same thing... I hada promise ring from my mom that I wouldn't do it... I did anyway and I always regret it...
I LOVE SEX but I still wish I would have waited for that special someone...
2007-11-09 06:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Adam and Eve weren't married, and what they had like 16 kids?
But seriously, if you do decide to have sex, you should educate yourself about safe sex, learn about your own body, and then decide what you feel like you want to do. There is nothing wrong with it, it's human instinct. And it's kinda fun, but there is some responsibility involved.
2007-11-09 05:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lulu Wartooth 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best thing I ever did was wait. I hadn't give any part of myself to anyone before I got married, and my husband was the same. We were able to give ourselves completely to each other. Even when we were engaged, we held back. I respected him for waiting for me, and I know he respected that I waited for him.
2007-11-09 06:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋