How do I convince my mom to get me a dog for christmas i already sent her 2 emails with websites and adds that were for dogs in winnipeg were I live so how can I convince her?? ?? ??
2007-11-09 05:05:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
My local shelter won't allow people under sixteen to volunteer. AND I DO NOT HAVE CHRISTMAS PUPPY SYNDROM. I have been wanting a small dog for a long time!
2007-11-09 05:12:42 · update #1
I already have a dog and she gets lonely cause she has nobody to play with when i'm at school and while my mom is at work and i can't really walk my dog by myslef cause she is to big for me and i will fly down the street if she sees another dog and she can't sleep in my room with me at night cause i already have a guinea pig on my top bunk and if she really tries to get at my guina pig she will get him
2007-11-09 05:27:36 · update #2
if you are worried about your large dog eating a guinea pig maybe you shouldn't get a small dog. maybe you have too much on your plate already and your mom is probably right. just wait a while until you get older.
2007-11-09 05:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by bekkaroo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, Pets for Christmas are not a good choice. They only want them for the holidays and the newness will wear off . You won't have time to take care of the pup as in playing, training an get into a regular routine, as you are going to be visiting other places.
It would be best for you to do some research on a few breeds and then narrow it down to one that you really like. Talk with owners , breeders, shelters and vets what they think about the breed. Volunteer at shelters so you will know what to expect. Get a part time job so you can help with the dogs expenses. Wait until summer before asking about a pup. Tell you mom what you have learned. That Way you will be out of school to take care of the pup. But then if you have many summer activities that may not even work then. You need to decide if a pup will take priority over summer activities. The pup is going to need you a lot more.
EDIT: I just seen the latest that you wrote, Here it goes. You say you already have a dog and she gets lonely and no one to play with because you are at school and your mom is at work. How is a puppy going to make that any better? Then you will have 2 lonely dogs instead of one. Don't take on more then you can handle.
2007-11-09 05:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Owning a dog is a lot of responsibility, both in time and financial means. Are you truly able to handle both of these?
Dogs need time for play, training, walking (even in the bad weather), you may end up giving up time with your friends because the dog needs attention/walking. There is also a very large financial commitment, for food, training, equipment, toys, vet bills, routine medications - are you able to help with this or will this all fall to your mom?
These are questions you need to think long and hard about before you get a dog. Dog ownership is a commitment for at least 8 years, sometimes as long as 18-20 years depending on the breed. What about when you go away to vacation or college? What happens to the dog then.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to tell you not to get one - I just know too often where folks finally get a dog, and then decide it's too much work or they can't afford it, and the dog ends up homeless or in a shelter or foster care.
Dogs are wonderful additions to the family, and can be a great comfort.
Instead of trying to convince your mom, why not check out a local shelter or humane society or rescue organization in your town that may be looking for volunteers to help with the dogs. You will get a first hand look at what dog ownership is about, and can at the same time show your mom that you are ready for a dog. Actions speak a whole lot louder than words or e-mails.
2007-11-09 05:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by rjn529 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Convince her by being responsible. Get a job if you can, volunteer at a humane society. Show her you're capable of the hard work it takes to provide and care for a dog.
Most parents are leary about getting their children pets because more often than not the parents end up taking care of it after a couple of weeks.
Also what happens when you go off to school? Your parents will likely end up with a dog they maybe never wanted in the first place.
2007-11-09 05:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Bindi *dogtrainingbyjess.com* 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious conversation about rules and responsibilities, don't just send emails, make rash promises, or whine. None of those will work. Be mature about this and your mom might see that as a sing you can handle a dog.
Be sure not to buy a dog from a pet store as many come from puppy mills. Go to a reputable breeder or the shelter. Research the kind of dog you want so you know it's compatable with your lifestyle, and avoid designer breeds like "teacup" anything.
2007-11-09 05:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by cellar_door 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you know how much your life will change once you get a dog? It's basically like having a baby. You have to wake up in the middle of the night to take it to the bathroom. You have to CONSTANTLY keep your eye on the dog. Do you like to go out with your friends? Do not expect to go out until the dog is grown and well trained. Are you going to be able to be at home during the day to take care of it? Do you have the funds to take it to the vet? Prepare to spend a huge chunk of change on a puppy.
Also, have you done research on a particular breed? A dog should not be chosen because it's small. You need to find a dog that fits your life style. Getting a dog for it's appearance is the worst way to choose a dog. Do your research.
2007-11-09 05:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy Shih Tzu 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you don't convince her. she already knows who is going to end up taking care of it and doing all the work when the whole "christmas puppy syndrome" wears off. try volunteering at the shelter or try fostering a dog from a local rescue. that way you will learn how much work it is to care for a dog. they don't stay puppies, puppies need to be trained. good luck.
2007-11-09 05:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
first of all think, is getting a dog a good idea, do you have enough time to take care of it, would you take care of it properly and not leave all the responsibilities to your parents. remember "a dog is for life not just for xmas"
so just make sure you are ready for a dog before begging your mum.
2007-11-09 05:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by katie h 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You already have a dog. Get real.
I've been trying to get a dog my whole life, and it's never happened so far.
Sorry, but you're lucky you already have a dog.
2007-11-10 02:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words for you. DO NOT CONVINCE. trust me. ive wanted a chihuahua for so long and i asked the same question. i soon realized that there really is no possible way for you to "CONVINCE" your mom. here is what i did. my parents were devorced and i was really lonley because my sister really didn't like me. i begged and begged my mom and she stuck with the answer:chihuahuas are little ugly rats who can run and fetch hayley i will not buy you a chihuahua." all of a sudden i had an idea.i would do my chores plus my sisters chores and more to please my mom. she was very please. after two weeks i didn't yell out now can i have a chihuahua? i sat her down when she was in a good mood. i told her im ready to take on more responsability and im really going to be able to do it. i truly think im ready to take on the responsability of my own dog. she told me that i would have to wait until spring. so right now im on a waiting list for a chihuahua that will come home with me early spring. hope i helped.ps: now my mom is in love with chihuahuas!
2007-11-09 05:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋