I'm not too sure bout what telepathy means... but there's this guy who keeps staring at me all the time. However, he doesn't speak to me or smile at me.... infact he doesnt even talk to me when he has the chance to. I developed a huge crush on him but i decided to get over him but i have noticed that he keeps staring at me.. Even my friends say that!!!His eye contact gives me the message that he is crazy bout me! What may be goin on in his mind??? Is my instinct misleading me????
2007-11-09 02:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well staring at u is a good sign, if he stares at u means that u r like-able, u capture his attention and he adores u in a way. but what u should do is to give him space don't go act and tell everybody that u think he has a crush on u. when he is staring at u try to keep a little eye contact for a minute or 2 just to see what he'll do next.
2007-11-09 03:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, Trust, Your instinct, unless you have a untainted conscious, you shouldn't trust what your heart or instinct tells you. forgive me if I sound harsh, but I've been through hell in my short year's and I just don't want to see anyone else go through what i did. If you want something to trust then look to an older more experienced person, if your religious like me, then look to the bible. But the best advise i can give you is just stay away from guy's right now, I know it can be hard, sometimes I get so lonely, and I would like to maybe have a girlfriend I could talk to, but i know that it would be better if i just stayed single, and you know what? I'm better off then all my friends that do date, their always telling me about how sad they are because their girl friend broke up with them or cheated on them and this one was the one. So I guess what I'm saying is just be careful you never know what this guy could be thinking, you could be thinking " i really like this guy and I'd like to really get to know him better" and he could just be looking for a good time.
I hope you make the right decision
B.C.
2007-11-09 12:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the question I have is how is he staring at you? Is it with no expression, angry, sad, lovingly, or what? It really depends on how he is truly looking at you.
But, as I guy, I will tell you this. Nothing is sexier or shows that a woman is a good catch than going over and talking to them. Walk right up to him and say something to the affect of, "Is it my imagination or do you keep looking at me?" If you truly think he's cute or could be interesting, say something to the fact of "Well, I just wanted you to know I don't mind." and then introduce yourself. Also, do you know him? (meaning name, etc.) If so, it should be even easier.
Overall, the best way to figure out things is to talk to the person. If he says something hateful, you know to avoid him. If he says something nice or is atleast pleasant. He probably does like you and, like a lot of people, is too shy or afraid of getting hurt to talk to you.
Gl and the ball is in your court. Oh, and for safety sake (we live in a crazy world) I would talk to him one on one, but with friends close by. Either way, be confident in yourself, smile, looking him in his eyes and say what's on your mind. Everything will be fine.
2007-11-09 11:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by The TDB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that he probably likes you and doesn't want to admit it. I mean he is staring at you so maybe your instincts are not misleading you. I think eye contact is a way in his mind of flirting with another person. Because he sounds kind of stalkery but it might just be me. But anyways you are not wrong.
2007-11-09 10:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by astateson111 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you, but is too shy to make the first move. If you walk over, smile, and say "hi", you will find out soon enough what you need to know. If you walk over and start talking to him in an angry tone of voice, he will get scared and run away.
2007-11-09 10:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u call this telepathy I pity you. if u also hv a crush or want a quickie, I think u must trust ur instinct now.
2007-11-09 11:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to find out. You are going to have to talk to him. One of you has to be the bold one. Looks like it's up to you.
2007-11-09 11:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by shellshell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha that's hilarious because that always happens to me
one time i went up to one of those guys that did that to me
and he had NOTHING to say. . he just ran away. haha
so honestly i think you should go talk to him ...spark a convo
because you have nothing to lose.
2007-11-09 10:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋