Where you get bored of her no matter how sexy she is?
2007-11-09 02:46:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love should deepen as you grow with one another. Lust is really what most ppl feel and mistake it for love. Lust doesn't last, love should endure.
You should find something more than just sex to base you relationship. it is important but so are other things. a total package that you really like can turn to love.
Given the high divorce rate, one sees that it is difficult in today's society that is geared toward instant gratification and if things don't work out, oh well.
sounds like your are doomed from the beginning. IMO
2007-11-09 02:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not the woman's fault that is the man hormones.
for example at 18 a guy is a walking *****. He gets excited and focused on sex to the point it effects his judgment.
What his girl is wearing or how sexy she looks that day is not all that important. Really all getting sexy does for an 18 year old is shorten the magical 30 second experience into a 10 second experience.
This is all related to hormones. I would recommend that he goes to a doctor and have his hormon levels tested. The only other thing that makes a guy not want to hit it is if he is double dipping.
2007-11-09 10:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because no matter how much you love her doing the same positions in the same room for the rest of your life is going to start becoming a chore. In order for you to not get bored, don't ever do the same thing for too long. Find new positions, locations, and spots. Do romantic and then maybe raunchy. Keep it alive and never let it die, because once the sex fades, couples start to feel like their love is fading when it really isn't. I hope I've helped you a little bit.
2007-11-09 10:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear tooeasy_mate76:
Please do NOT
"Rape" the word Love!
You sound like a little girl!
You sound too young to even have a
Clue as to what this word entails!
How old are you?
Our brains are NOT fully developed
or properly "wired" until we reach the
age of 25 + years!
After you date your gf for 4 + years
you will be able to ans. this ques. for
yourself! Until then~ you are living in
a Fantasy world of Illusion!
After the 4 yrs. you will find that you
are lustful & infatuated with sex.
Are you laying a firm foundation for
your future? Do you have a Marketable
Job Skill?
As we mature & gain experience~
we find that sex comprises about
1% of our meaningful relationship.
(But that 1% is very important!)
Yes! Sex fades in importance~
as you grow as a man!
BTW .........
Bag your Johnson!
Think with your brain &
NOT your middle leg!
Good Luck~ tooeasy_mate76
2007-11-09 11:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on the person, but from personal experience (based on my husband's reaction) it never becomes "boring." However, a close relationshp based on love and the such can take a back-seat to other aspects of your life, leading (over time) to not having sex so often and not minding so much. But, it really depends on the person and the circumstances.
2007-11-09 10:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by hetty_bobcat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must keep it spicy and both of you wanting it. Try new things, be creative. Love making is an all day process that is not just about the orgasm(s). It is also not just physical. When you realize that then you will be ready for true love.
2007-11-09 10:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if your that shallow of a person i know people in there sixties that have been married for 30 years still think their husband/wife are the most beautiful thing in their lives
2007-11-09 10:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tukam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you let your relationship get into a rut (sexual or otherwise), anyone could get bored. Couples need to constantly work on their relationships to keep them exciting.
2007-11-09 10:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love never fades. it never grows old. it's not about sex alone sir!
find something else to appreciate about her and lay less emphasis on the sex.
2007-11-09 10:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ayo A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as you BOTH put in an effort to keep things in the bedroom sexy and fun. ( and it doesn't always have to be in the bedroom ;) )
2007-11-09 10:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋