I'm chubby. At 20, I haven't dated anyone and I think no guys will ever liked me...but my friends even some other people I talked to told me that I'm beautiful.
2007-11-09 02:45:58 · 15 answers · asked by InsularesR.N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are beautiful on the inside and out. You might not see it yet but it's there. Maybe you should try either dieting or exercising more or something because everyone is beautiful. And you will find someone although you are 20 years old you just have to think positive about those types of things. And exercising would probably bust your confidence higher in finding a mate.
2007-11-09 02:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. You are a chubby lady and there's many guys who aren't that shallow out there who don't find that a problem.
I worry that you have an esteem problem here. You might wish to shed a few pounds not to attract guys to feel better about yourself and feel more confident. You might then get a date, not for a slimmer look, but because you are a cheerful, more confident person. Harder said than done, I know.
Good luck.
2007-11-09 10:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gaspode the wonder dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are!! And don't let anyone tell you you are not, if a guy doesn't like you, the hell with him, you right away discard the superficial a**holes. You will find a guy that will love you for everything that you are, beauty is only skin deep, your amazing personality is what captures a real man
2007-11-09 10:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a little faith even us chubby people find love. I've been overweight most of my life and have had several long-term relationships. I'm now married and my husband loves me. There is hope for all of us.
2007-11-09 10:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by TD R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are looking for a skinny girl. Let me quickly reference the Nelly song "Thicky Thick Girl" and the Fergie song "My Humps" and the 2 live crew song "Baby Got Back"...guys like some meat on a girls bones...you know somethin' they can hold on to!
So girl, you shouldn't be alone...in fact you should be in rap videos! So go on with your bad self...you've got a a whole LOT of luvin' to offer!
2007-11-09 10:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by BigBadWolff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to like yourself before anyone else will. I would listen you your friends, if I were you. That's the true answer to your questions about your physical appearance. But it's up to you how you carry yourself and how you present yourself to others. But yes, it is possible to find someone.
You say you're chubby. Well, I'm fat. I'm currently dating two men and always have others interested. It's obviously not my size that necessarily attracts men to me...
2007-11-09 10:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone. The key to having everything fall into place, is making sure that YOU have everything in place. This means you should show confidence and class if you are doing everything to the best of your abilities, the rest will fall into place naturally. :) Hope this helps!
2007-11-09 10:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by RosaLopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r beautiful !! If u r beautiful inside n out guys have to be blind not to like u !!
2007-11-09 10:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Edelwiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how u look, there are always people who find u attractive... Beauty is subjective... No standards whatsoever!
2007-11-09 10:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you WILL find someone
don't down grade yourself
you are beautiful, everyones different, everyones unique
good things come to those who wait
don't worry you will find someone who will love you for who you are
2007-11-09 10:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by Allstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋