I told a guy that I have been dating that I have not had sex for the last 3 years, but it is not true. I last had sex 3 months ago. Now the time is drwaing close when we are definitely going to have sex. What should I do? Will he realise that I have had sex recently or do I simply tell him the truth?
2007-11-09 02:32:23 · 18 answers · asked by dontknowmyself 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He won't know j00 muppet....but why would it matter to him when you last had it?
2007-11-09 02:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by Arther 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this and be honest with him from now on. As someone that is going to have sex with you-he deserves to know basic history, such as have you had unprotected sex and was the one-night stand thing common practice for you before him. But other than that, he really doesn't need to know the timeline of when your sexual encounters happened. You need to realize that when you have sex with someone-their history is important because if they were someone that slept around, they are a higher risk...common sense-the more partners you have had the more chances you have of contracting a STD-and that effects him....Good practice is to get tested after every new partner-whether condom was used or not, and that way, you can comfortably have sex with the next and not worry about spreading STDs....and know exactly who you got the STD from in the first place if that were to happen. But be honest about things from now on..that is not good to build a relationship off of lies-even if they are small ones.
2007-11-09 10:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't have a clue and the only way he would know you lied about your sexual history or have questions about it is if A. you where a virgin and bled or b. you told him you where a virgin and didn't. My suggestions are 1. Use a condom while having sex and 2. always tell the truth especially about sex and 3. Remember that he also could be lying about his sexual history so use condoms.
2007-11-09 10:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should own up and tell him, he may not be best please, but you will know from his reaction if he really is interested in you as a person. You should all so check your spelling before asking questions. I say this because you can't spell drawing, you left out the a. If you want some advise tell him that you are sorry that you deceived him but now realise honesty is the best policy.
2007-11-09 12:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you need to lie about it? Either way, if you tell him now then he'll probably get the **** about you lying to him. What difference would it of made if you had of told him the truth? Everyone has a past. Just have fun.
2007-11-09 12:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he wont be able to tell that you have, thats impossible. I would just leave it at the moment and learn from the situation you have put yourself in. Furthermore, your past sex life is nothing to do with your boyfriend anyway, dont feel the need to spill your guts.
2007-11-09 10:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by aphrodite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one needs to know the sex history of anyone else unless it involves the possibility of having STDs, or knowingly having them and warning the person to take preventative measures.
2007-11-09 10:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you lie in the first place? I never understood why women do that. I've always ever been honest when asked about my sexual history. If my potential partner doesn't like my answers, then that's fine. He doesn't have to sleep with me.
2007-11-09 10:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past - and that's where it should remain.
Just forget about it and chalk it up to experience. Enjoy the moment with this man... good luck!
2007-11-09 10:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah don't worry, its none of his business anyway, it was in the past! He doesn't need to know, and there is no way he'll beable to tell.
Relax and enjoy, use a condom :)
2007-11-09 10:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if u told him ure avirgin he might be able to guess,but not knowing that wont hurt him,it dont matter about ure past history
2007-11-09 12:08:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋