I know that a lot of people say, its who you are don't worry about it!
but i find it extremely hard, if not impossible to ejaculate unless feet are involved!
and i don't like that at all!
Is there anyway i can change this?
2007-11-09 01:49:57 · 7 answers · asked by Darren S 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Mmmm, that's a tough one. I'd usually say enjoy the fetish and move on, but if you're saying you can't have an orgasm without feet involved then may you should see a therapist?
I think it's fine to admire and be turned on by feet, but that shouldn't be the ONLY thing that gets you going... Or at least I don't think it should because most women wouldn't want to accept that.
2007-11-12 05:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a foot fetish also. I have tried to get rid of it on my own since I am only 15, and I don't want to deal with the CBT and everything else. It is hard. I got about three weeks without even looking or typing in, or anything to do with it on the computer, or anything other than seeing a girl's foot and being a little turned on. (I can't help that last one.) It doesn't work. It is just a difficult annoyance, and I also figured out that I don't feel as good if I don't masturbate for that long either.
Now where you said you can't ejaculate unless feet are involved, I guess that is a little bit more of a problem. So in that case it might be more benefitial to see a CBT.
Hope this helps!
2007-11-11 13:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm one of those people who tell everyone it's normal, etc. But in your case, yeah, if it's a foot fetish in clinical terms (i.e., needing feet involved to experience arousal), then no it's not the best situation, and yes you need help. And yes, cognitive behavioral therapy can indeed help. It's not as easy as sitting on a couch for 30 minutes three times a week, it takes a lot of mental exorcise on your own part, but if you're willing to work at it you should be cured eventually.
2007-11-09 14:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by nope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No behaviour therapy will help you with this. The more you suppress your desires the more intense and out of whack they become - and so, you 'can't ejaculate if feet are not involved'.
First step: Acceptance. Know that there are a ton of people out there that think feet are cute and sexy and you're one of them.
Second step: Find a girl that enjoys it (and believe me, as the second response indicates, they're out there). A little kinkiness does light up a bedroom.
Third step: Once you have completed step one and two, relax. Now you can pay more attention to your partner's needs, and not dwell on your own.
2007-11-09 04:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rimas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I definitely think you have a right to feel this way. I agree with the first lady, behavior therapy.
2007-11-09 02:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find a woman who will let you use her feet. Just keep looking. I let my husband use mine all the time. But, no I don't think you can really change your fetishes. ;)
2007-11-09 01:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Arrica C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
see a cognitive behavioral therapist
2007-11-09 01:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋