I like this girl and i herad she likes me a little but when i came to asking her out she said no but then one of her friends came up to me and said the reason she woul not go out with me was becuase she was to shy i don't know whether just to leave it or ask her out again but if i do ask her out again i don't want to be stalker like
2007-11-09 00:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her friend is just being nice to make you not feel bad, she doesn't like you
2007-11-09 00:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Zenkai 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I currently have more than I know what to do with- the secret to womanising is to be cock-sure, arrogant and witty, but for it to be done in a way that makes her laugh rather than be disguisted by you! There is a fine line between the two but to be honest I reckon being confident and finding out as soon as possible is the best solution- rather than letting it play on your mind and sap your energy and confidence when you may not even be her type. also, try not to shoot too high or too low. That involves knowing a bit about the way others percieve you- it comes in handy trust me..
2007-11-09 00:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rowan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is not very interested, perhaps its time to go out at the weekend and meet some more interesting people. If she is there at the same time and sees you doing so she might just approach you. If not don't waste any time and move on.
2007-11-09 00:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shara A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to become a close friend to the girl and not try to intimadate her by asking her out each time you meet. sometimes shyness can be mistaken for a lack of trust so show her your intentions are good and let the rest work for itself..she will come around.
2007-11-09 00:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tim O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends is most important, people need to get to know you better and find out what kind of person you are. No one is going to come out with you immediately just becaue you fancy them.
2007-11-09 00:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by live and let live 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking her again and make sure this time to look her in the eye and ask her why she doesn't want to go out with you.
be very open with her and try to give her a bit of time.
all the best
2007-11-09 00:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by life part 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you need to try again. But choose the other ways. Take times and be patient until she melt down (if you love her).
If you don't , leave it.
2007-11-09 00:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Peace TN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out again in a friendly fashion. you can start a normal
conversation, days events, things you both like and when you
think she is comfortable politely ask her out.
this may very well work. good luck.
2007-11-09 00:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on
Take it easy
Win confidence by smaller steps first if shes shy,
2007-11-09 00:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by vikas b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little, flirt some, get to know her more and ask her out again when you think she feels more comfortable with you
2007-11-09 00:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋