We've been going out for 1 week already and we havent even kissed yet.Im getting bored.How can I tell him to speed it up?
2007-11-08 19:27:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's time you took the lead. Let him know what you want, make the first move. If he doesn't like that, don't worry, it just lets you know you were not compatible with you anyway.
2007-11-08 19:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever behavior you are wanting or expecting from him needs to be how you pattern your behavior.
If the picture you have posted is any indication of how you really look, It should be no problem.
Heck, I just wish I was a little younger, Oops I mean a lot younger. I forgot you can see my picture also. Old sucks enjoy your youth and don't be in such a hurry. Youth ends fast enough.
2007-11-08 19:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are bored after a week, eh? Hmm. If you don't have chemistry with him or have feelings for him, then you can always find a new bf. If he bores you, then he's not the one for you.
If he is not ready to kiss you then you should not force him, but he is probably just pretending to be a "gentleman" and he is probably afraid he will scare you if he tries to kiss you.
You kiss him first: that would be my best suggestion, or just wait for him to make his move. Which will you choose?
Cheers
2007-11-08 19:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 21:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gal chill out... it has only been 1 week.. it shows tt he respects u...
well if u really want him to move a little faster u cld take the iniciative to kiss him 1st... its ok u know.. u dun have to wait for him to make the 1st move u can do it too... ;)
tell him tt u wld like to speed things up a little.... and like their are not enuff "sparks" yet!! im sure he ll get the hint!!
GooD LuCk!! ;)
2007-11-08 19:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that picture really you? haha if so, he's being a true gentlemen lol yea enough said tho from what seems like the rest of the country. jus kiss him. let him know blah blah what the guy below and girl above said blah blah blahblah.
2007-11-08 19:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'VE ONLY BEEN GOING OUT FOR A WEEK!
If you're so obsessed with the physical side of a relationship instead of the raw emotional side of it maybe YOU should make the first move?
2007-11-08 19:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take the lead, maybe he is too shy to make the first move or maybe he thinks that if he kisses you too soon you will think he's only after one thing, also chill out, it's only been a week!
2007-11-08 19:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Big Frank 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just trying to be respectful. Let him take his time. It's not hurting anything. If you like him for who he is, and it's not just physical, there's no reason to be getting bored after just a week.
2007-11-08 19:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Been here before 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can straight forward to kiss him first , may be he is afraid you will say him too fast . Anyway each of you must show something first before anything goes wrong .
2007-11-08 19:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by ttlim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋